12 Traditions of AA
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Tradition One
"Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon A.A. Unity."
The unity of Alcoholics Anonymous it the most cherished quality our Society
has. Our live, the lives of all to come, depend squarely upon it. We stay
whole, or A.A. dies. Without unity, the heart of A.A. would cease to beat; our
world arteries would no longer carry the life-giving grace of God; His gift to
us would be spent aimlessly. Back again in their caves, alcoholics would
reproach us and say, "What a great thing A.A. might have been!"
"Does this mean," some will anxiously ask, "that in A.A. the individual
doesn't count for much? Is he to be dominated by his group and swallowed up in
it?"
We may certainly answer this question with a loud "No!" We believe there
isn't a fellowship on earth which lavishes more devoted care upon its
individual members; surely there is none which more jealously guards the
individual's right to think, talk, and act as he wishes. No A.A. can compel
another to do anything; nobody can be punished or expelled. Our Twelve Steps
to recovery are suggestions; the Twelve Traditions which guarantee A.A.'s unity
contain not a single "Don't." They repeatedly say "We ought..." but never
"You must!"
To many minds all this liberty for the individual spells sheer anarchy. Every
newcomer, every friend who looks at A.A. for the first time is greatly puzzled.
They see liberty verging on license, yet they recognize at once that A.A. has
an irresistible strength of purpose and action. "How," they ask, "can such a
crowd of anarchists function at all? How can they possible place their common
welfare first? What in Heaven's name holds them together?"
Those who look closely soon have the key to this strange paradox. The A.A.
member has to conform to the principles of recovery. His life actually depends
upon obedience to spiritual principles. If he deviates too far, the penalty is
sure and swift; he sickens and dies. At first he goes along because he must,
but later he discovers a way of life he really wants to live. Moreover, he
finds he cannot keep this priceless gift unless he gives it away. Neither he
nor anybody else can survive unless he carries the A.A. message. The moment
this Twelfth Step work forms a group, another discovery is made - that most
individuals cannot recover unless there is a group. Realization dawns that he
is but a small part of a great whole; that no personal sacrifice is too great
for preservation of the Fellowship. He learns that the clamor of desires and
ambitions within him must be silenced whenever these could damage the group.
It becomes plain that the group must survive or the individual will not.
So at the outset, how best to live and work together as groups became the
prime question. In the world about us we saw personalities destroying whole
peoples. The struggle for wealth, power, and prestige was tearing humanity
apart as never before. If strong people were stalemated in the search for
peace and harmony, what was to become of our erratic band of alcoholics? As we
had once struggled and prayed for individual recovery, just so earnestly did we
commence to quest for the principles through which A.A. itself might survive.
on anvils of experience, the structure of our Society was hammered out.
Countless times, in as many cities and hamlets, we reenacted the story of
Eddie Rickenbacker and his courageous company when their plane crashed in the
Pacific. Like us, they had suddenly found themselves saved from death, but
still floating upon a perilous sea. How well they saw that their common
welfare came first. None might become selfish of water or bread. Each needed
to consider the others, and in abiding faith they knew they must find their
real strength. And as they did find, in measure to transcend all the defects
of their frail craft, every test of uncertainty, pain, fear, and despair, and
even the death of one.
Thus has it been with A.A. By faith and by works we have been able to build
upon the lessons of an incredible experience. They live today in the Twelve
Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous, which - God willing - shall sustain us in
unity for so long as He may need us.
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Tradition Two
"For our group purpose, there is but one ultimate authority - a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience."
Where does A.A. get its direction? Who runs it? This, too, is a puzzler for
every friend and newcomer. When told that our Society has no president having
authority to govern it, no treasurer who can compel the payment of any dues,
not board of directors who can cast an erring member into outer darkness, when
indeed no A.A. can give another a directive and enforce obedience, our friends
gasp and exclaim, "This simply can't be. There must be an angle somewhere."
These practical folk then read Tradition Two, and learn that the sole authority
in A.A. is a loving God as He may express Himself in the group conscience.
They dubiously ask an experienced A.A. member if this really works. The
member, sane to all appearances, immediately answers, "Yes! It definitely
does." The friends mutter that his looks vague, nebulous, pretty naive to
them. Then they commence to watch us with speculative eyes, pick up a fragment
of A.A. history, and soon have the solid facts.
What are these facts of A.A. life which brought us to this apparently
impractical principle?
John Doe, a good A.A. moves - let us say - to Middletown, U.S.A. Alone now,
he reflects that he may not be able to stay sober, or even alive, unless he
passes on to other alcoholics what was so freely given him. He feels a
spiritual and ethical compulsion, because hundreds may be suffering within
reach of his help. Then, too, he misses his home group. He needs other
alcoholics as much as they need him. He visits preachers, doctors, editors,
policemen , and bartenders ... with the result that Middletown now has a group,
and he is the founder.
Being the founder, he is at first the boss. Who else could be? Very soon,
though, his assumed authority to run everything begins to be shared with the
first alcoholics he has helped. At this moment, the benign dictator becomes
the chairman of a committee composed of his friends. These are the growing
group's hierarchy of service - self-appointed, of course, because there is no
other way. In a matter of months, A.A. booms in Middletown.
The founder and his friends channel spirituality to newcomers, hire halls,
make hospital arrangements, and entreat their wives to brew gallons of coffee.
Being on the human side, the founder and his friends may bask a little in
glory. They say to one another, "Perhaps it would be a good idea if we
continue to keep a firm hand on A.A. in this town. After all, we are
experienced. Besides, look at all the good we've done these drunks. They
should be grateful!" True, founders and their friends are sometimes wiser and
more humble than this. But more often at this stage they are not.
Growing pains now beset the group. Panhandlers panhandle. Lonely hearts
pine. Problems descend like an avalanche. Still more important, murmurs are
heard in the body politic, which swell into a loud cry: "Do these oldtimers
think they can run this group forever? Let's have an election!" The founder
and his friends are hurt and depressed. They rush from crisis to crisis and
from member to member, pleading; but it's no use, the revolution is on. The
group conscience is about to take over.
Now comes the election. If the founder and his friends have served well,
they may - to their surprise - be reinstated for a time. If, however, they
have heavily resisted the rising tide of democracy, they may be summarily
beached. In either case, the group now has a so-called rotating committee,
very sharply limited in its authority. In no sense whatever can its members
govern or direct the group. They are servants. Theirs is the sometimes
thankless privilege of doing the group's chores. Headed by the chairman, they
look after public relations and arrange meetings. Their treasurer, strictly
accountable, takes money from the hat that is passed, banks it, pays the rent
and other bills, and makes a regular report at business meetings. The
secretary sees that literature is on the table, looks after the phone-answering
service, answers the mail, and sends out notices of meetings. Such are the
simple services that enable the group to function. the committee gives no
spiritual advice, judges no one's conduct, issues no orders. Every one of them
may be promptly eliminated at the next election if they try this. And so they
make the belated discovery that they are really servants, not senators. These
are universal experiences. Thus throughout A.A. does the group conscience
decree the terms upon which its leaders shall serve.
This brings us straight to the question "Does A.A. have a real leadership?"
Most emphatically the answer is "Yes, notwithstanding the apparent lack of it."
Let's turn again to the deposed founder and his friends. What becomes of them?
As their grief and anxiety wear away, a subtle change begins. Ultimately, they
divide into two classes known in A.A. slang as "elder statesmen" and "bleeding
deacons." The elder statesman is the one who sees the wisdom of the group's
decision, who holds no resentment over his reduced status, whose judgment,
fortified by considerable experience, is sound, and who is willing to sit
quietly on the sidelines patiently awaiting developments. The bleeding deacon
is one who is just as surely convinced that the group cannot get along without
him, who constantly connives for reelection to office, and who continues to be
consumed with self-pity. A few hemorrhage so badly that - drained of all A.A.
spirit and principal - they get drunk. At times the A.A. landscape seems to be
littered with bleeding forms. Nearly every oldtimer in our Society has gone
through this process in some degree. Happily, most of them survive and live to
become elder statesmen. They become the real and permanent leadership of A.A.
Theirs is the quiet opinion, the sure knowledge and humble example that resolve
a crisis. When sorely perplexed, the group inevitably turns to them for
advice. They become the voice of the group conscience; in fact, these are the
true voice of Alcoholics Anonymous. They do not drive by mandate; they lead by
example. This is the experience which has led us to the conclusion that our
group conscience, well-advised by its elders, will be in the long run wiser
than any single leader.
When A.A. was only three years old, an event occurred demonstrating this
principle. One of the first members of A.A., entirely contrary to his own
desires, was obliged to conform to group opinion. Here is the story in his
words.
"One day I was doing a Twelfth Step job at a hospital in New York. The
proprietor, Charlie, summoned me to his office. `Bill,' he said, `I think it's
a shame that you are financially so hard up. All around you these drunks are
getting well and making money. But you're giving this work full time, and
you're broke. It isn't fair.' Charlie fished in his desk and came up with and
old financial statement. Handing it to me, he continued, `This shows the kind
of money the hospital used to make back in the 1920's. Thousands of dollars a
month. It should be doing just as well now, and it would - if only you'd help
me. so why don't you move your work in here? I'll give you and office, a
decent drawing account, and a very healthy slice of the profits. Three years
ago, when my head doctor, Silkworth, began to tell me of the idea of helping
drunks by spirituality, I thought it was crackpot stuff, but I've changed my
mind. some day this bunch of ex-drunks of yours will fill Madison Square
Garden, and I don't see why you should starve meanwhile. What I propose is
perfectly ethical. You can become a lay therapist, and more successful than
anybody in the business.'
"I was bowled over. There were a few twinges of conscience until I was how
really ethical Charlie's proposal was. There was nothing wrong whatever with
becoming a lay therapist. I thought of Lois coming home exhausted from the
department store each day, only to cook supper for a houseful of drunks who
weren't paying board. I thought of the large sum of money still owing my Wall
Street creditors. I thought of a few of my alcoholic friends, who were making
as much money as ever. Why shouldn't I do as well as they?
"Although I asked Charlie for a little time to consider it, my own mind was
about made up. Racing back to Brooklyn on the subway, I had a seeming flash of
divine guidance. It was only a single sentence, but most convincing. In fact,
it came right out of the Bible - a voice kept saying to me, `The laborer is
worthy of his hire.' Arriving home, I found Lois cooking as usual, while three
drunks looked hungrily on from the kitchen door. I drew her aside and told the
glorious news. She looked interested, but not as excited as I thought she
should be.
"It was meeting night. Although none of the alcoholics we boarded seemed to
get sober, some others had. With their wives they crowded into our downstairs
parlor. At once I burst into the story of my opportunity. Never shall I
forget their impassive faces, and the steady gaze they focused upon me. With
waning enthusiasm, my tale trailed off to the end. There was a long silence.
"Almost timidly, one of my friends began to speak. `We know how hard up you
are, Bill. it bothers us a lot. We've often wondered what we might do about
it. But I think I speak for everyone here when I say that what you now propose
bothers us an awful lot more.' The speaker's voice grew more confident.
`Don't you realize,' he went on, `that you can never become a professional? As
generous as Charlie has been to us, don't you see that we can't tie this thing
up with his hospital or any other? You tell us that Charlie's proposal is
ethical. Sure, it's ethical, but what we've got won't run on ethics only; it
has to be better. Sure, Charlie's idea is good, but it isn't good enough.
This is a matter of life and death, Bill, and nothing but the very best will
do!' Challengingly, by friends looked at me as their spokesman continued.
`Bill, haven't you often said right here in this meeting that sometimes the
good is the enemy of the best? Well, this is a plain case of it. You can't do
this thing to us!'
"So spoke the group conscience. The group was right and I was wrong; the
voice on the subway was not the voice of God. Here was the true voice, welling
up out of my friends. I listened, and - thank God - I obeyed."
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Tradition Three
"The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking."
This Tradition is packed with meaning. For A.A. is really saying to every
serious drinker, "You are an A.A. member if you say so. You can declare
yourself in; nobody can keep you out. No matter who you are, no matter how low
you've gone, no matter how grave your emotional complications - even your
crimes - we still can't deny you A.A. We don't want to keep you out. We
aren't a bit afraid you'll harm us, never mind how twisted or violent you may
be. We just want to be sure that you get the same great chance for sobriety
that we've had. So you're an A.A. member the minute you declare yourself."
To establish this principle of membership took years of harrowing experience.
In our early time, nothing seemed so fragile, so easily breakable as an A.A.
group. Hardly an alcoholic we approached paid any attention; most of those who
did join us were like flickering candles in a windstorm. Time after time,
their uncertain flames blew out and couldn't be relighted. Our unspoken,
constant thought was "Which of us may be the next?"
A member gives us a vivid glimpse of those days. "At one time," he says,
"every A.A. group had many membership rules. Everybody was scared witless that
something or somebody would capsize the boat and dump us all back into the
drink. Our Foundation office* asked each group to send in its list of
`protective' regulations. The total list was a mile long. If all those rules
had been in effect everywhere, nobody could have possibly joined A.A. at all,
so great was the sum of our anxiety and fear.
*In 1954, the name of the Alcoholic Foundation, Inc., was changed to the
General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous, Inc., and the Foundation office
is now the General Service Office.
"We were resolved to admit nobody to A.A. but that hypothetical class of
people we termed `pure alcoholics.' Except for their guzzling, and the
unfortunate results thereof, they could have no other complications. so
beggars, tramps, asylum inmates, prisoners, queers, plain crackpots, and fallen
women were definitely out. Yes sir, we'd cater only to pure and respectable
alcoholics! Any others would surely destroy us. Besides, if we took in those
odd ones, what would decent people say about us? We built a fine-mesh fence
right around A.A.
"Maybe this sounds comical now. Maybe you think we oldtimers were pretty
intolerant. But I can tell you there was nothing funny about the situation
then. We were grim because we felt our lives and homes were threatened, and
that was no laughing matter. Intolerant, you say? Well, we were frightened.
Naturally, we began to act like most everybody does when afraid. After all,
isn't fear the true basis of intolerance? Yes, we were intolerant."
How could we then guess that all those fears were to prove groundless? How
could we know that thousands of these sometimes frightening people were to make
astonishing recoveries and become our greatest workers and intimate friends?
Was it credible that A.A. was to have a divorce rate far lower than average?
Could we then foresee that troublesome people were to become our principle
teachers of patience and tolerance? Could any then imagine a society which
would include every conceivable kind of character, and cut across every barrier
of race, creed, politics, and language with ease?
Why did A.A. finally drop all its membership regulations? Why did we leave
it to each newcomer to decide himself whether he was an alcoholic and whether
he should join us? Why did we dare say, contrary to the experience of society
and government everywhere, that we would neither punish nor deprive any A.A. of
membership, believe anything, or conform to anything?
The answer, now seen in Tradition Three, was simplicity itself. At last
experience taught us that to take away any alcoholic's full chance was
sometimes to pronounce his death sentence, and often to condemn him to endless
misery. Who dared to be judge, jury, and executioner of his own sick
brother?
As group after group saw these possibilities, they finally abandoned all
membership regulations. One dramatic experience after another clinched this
determination until it became our universal tradition. Here are two
examples:
On the A.A. calendar it was Year Two. In that time nothing could be seen but
two struggling, nameless groups of alcoholics trying to hold their faces up to
the light.
A newcomer appeared at one of these groups, knocked on the door and asked to
be let in. He talked frankly with that group's oldest member. He soon proved
that his was a desperate case, and that above all he wanted to get well.
"But," he asked, "will you let me join your group? Since I am the victim of
another addiction even worse stigmatized than alcoholism, you may not want me
among you. Or will you?"
There was the dilemma. What should the group do? The oldest member summoned
two others, and in confidence laid the explosive facts in their laps. Said he,
"Well, what about it? If we turn this man away, he'll soon die. If we allow
him in, only god knows what trouble he'll brew. What shall the answer be - yes
or no?"
At first the elders could look only at the objections. "We deal," they said,
"with alcoholics only. So went the discussion while the newcomers fate hung in
the balance. Then one of the three spoke in a very different voice. "What we
are really afraid of," he said, "is our reputation. We are much more afraid of
what people might say than the trouble this strange alcoholic might bring. As
we've been talking, five short words have been running through my mind.
Something keeps repeating to me, `What would the Master do?'" Not another word
was said. What more indeed could be said?"
Overjoyed, the newcomer plunged into Twelfth Step work. Tirelessly he laid
A.A.'s message before scores of people. Since this was a very early group,
those scores have since multiplied themselves into thousands. Never did he
trouble anyone with his other difficulty. A.A. had taken its first step in the
formation of Tradition Three.
Not long after the man with the double stigma knocked for admission, A.A.'s
other group received into its membership a salesman we shall call Ed. A power
driver, this one, and brash as any salesman could possibly be. He had at least
and idea a minute on how to improves A.A. These ideas he sold to fellow
members with the same burning enthusiasm with which he distributed automobile
polish. But he had one idea that wasn't so salable. Ed was an atheist. His
pet obsession was that A.A. could get along better without its "God nonsense."
He browbeat everybody, and everybody expected that he'd soon get drunk - for at
the time, you see, A.A. was on the pious side. There must be a heavy penalty,
it was thought, for blasphemy. Distressingly enough, Ed proceeded to stay
sober.
At length the time came for him to speak in a meeting. We shivered, for we
knew what was coming. He paid a fine tribute to the Fellowship; he told how
his family had been reunited; he extoled the virtue of honesty; he recalled the
joys of Twelfth Step work; and then he lowered the boom. Cried Ed, "I can't
stand this God stuff! It's a lot of malarkey for weak folks. This group
doesn't need it, and I won't have it! To hell with it!"
A great wave of outraged resentment engulfed the meeting, sweeping every
member to a single resolve: "Out he goes!"
The elders led Ed aside. They said firmly, "You can't talk like this around
here. You'll have to quit it or get out." With great sarcasm Ed came back at
them. "Now do tell! Is that so?" He reached over to a bookshelf and took up
a sheaf of papers. On top of them lay the foreword to the book "Alcoholics
Anonymous," then under preparation. He read aloud, "The only requirement for
A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking." Relentlessly, Ed went on, "When
you guys wrote that sentence, did you mean it, or didn't you?"
Dismayed, the elders looked at one another, for they knew he had them cold.
So Ed stayed.
Ed not only stayed, he stayed sober - month after month. The longer he kept
dry, the louder he talked - against God. The group was in anguish so deep that
all fraternal charity had vanished. "When, oh when," groaned members to one
another, "will that guy get drunk?"
Quite a while later, Ed got a sales job which took him out of town. At the
end of a few days, the news came in. He'd sent a telegram for money, and
everybody knew what that meant! Then he got on the phone. In those days, we'd
go anywhere on a Twelfth Step job, no matter how unpromising. But this time
nobody stirred. "Leave him alone! Let him try it by himself for once; maybe
he'll learn a lesson!"
About two weeks later, Ed stole by night into an A.A. member's house, and
unknown to the family, went to bed. Daylight found the master of the house and
another friend drinking their morning coffee. A noise was heard on the stairs.
To their consternation, Ed appeared. A quizzical smile on his lips, he said,
"Have you fellows had your morning meditation?" They quickly sensed that he
was quite in earnest. In fragments, his story came out.
In a neighboring state, Ed had holed up in a cheap hotel. After all his
please for help had been rebuffed, these words rang in his fevered mind. "They
have deserted me. I have been deserted by my own kind. This is the end . . .
Nothing is left." As he tossed on his bed, his hand brushed the bureau near
by, touching a book. Opening the book, he read. It was a Gideon Bible. Ed
never confided any more of what he saw and felt in that hotel room. It was the
year 1938. He hasn't had a drink since.
Nowadays, when oldtimers who know Ed foregather, they exclaim, "What if we
had actually succeeded in throwing Ed out for blasphemy? What would have
happened to him and all the others he later helped?"
So the hand of Providence early gave us a sign that any alcoholic is a member
of our Society when he says so.
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Tradition Four
"Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or A.A. as a whole."
Autonomy is a ten-dollar word. But in relation to us, it means very simply
that every A.A. group can manage its affairs exactly as it pleases, except when
A.A. as a whole is threatened. Comes now the same question raised in Tradition
One. Isn't such liberty foolishly dangerous?
Over the years, every conceivable deviation from our Twelve Steps and
Traditions has been tried. That was sure to be, since we are so largely a band
of ego-driven individualists. Children of chaos, we have defiantly played with
every brand of fire, only to emerge unharmed and, we think, wiser. These very
deviations created a vast process of trial and error which, under the grace of
God, has brought us to where we stand today.
When A.A.'s Traditions were first published, in 1946, we had become sure that
an A.A. group could stand almost any amount of battering. We saw that the
group, exactly like the individual, must eventually conform to whatever tested
principles would guarantee survival. We had discovered that there was perfect
safety in the process of trial and error. So confident of this had we become
that the original statement of A.A. tradition carried this significant
sentence: "Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call
themselves an A.A. group provided that as a group they have no other
affiliation."
This meant, of course, that we had been given the courage to declare each A.A.
group an individual entity, strictly rely on its own conscience as a guide to
action. In charting this enormous expanse of freedom, we found it necessary to
post only two storm signals: A group ought not do anything which would greatly
injure A.A. as a whole, nor ought it affiliate itself with anything or anybody
else. There would be real danger should we commence to call some groups "wet,"
others "dry," still others "Republican" or "Communist," and yet others
"Catholic" or "Protestant." The A.A. group would have to stick to its course
or be hopelessly lost. Sobriety had to be its sole objective. In all other
respects there was perfect freedom of will and action. Every group had the
right to be wrong.
When A.A. was still young, lots of eager groups were forming. In a town we'll
call Middleton, a real crackerjack had started up. The townspeople were as hot
as firecrackers about it. Stargazing, the elders dreamed of innovations. They
figured the town needed a great big alcoholic center, a kind of pilot plant
A.A. groups could duplicate everywhere. Beginning on the ground floor there
would be a club; in the second story they would sober up drunks and hand them
currency for the back debts; the third deck would house and educational project
- quite controversial, of course. In imagination the gleaming center was to go
up several stories more, but three would do for a start. This would all take a
lot of money - other people's money. Believe it or not, wealthy townsfolk
bought the idea.
There were, though, a few conservative dissenters among the alcoholics. the
wrote the Foundation*, A.A.'s headquarters in New York, wanting to know about
this sort of streamlining. They understood that the elders, just to nail
things down good, were about to apply to the Foundation for a charter. These
few were disturbed and skeptical.
*In 1954, the name of the Alcoholic Foundation, Inc., was changed to the
General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous, Inc., and the Foundation office
is now the General Service Office.
Of course, there was a promoter in the deal - a super-promoter. By his
eloquence he allayed all fears, despite advice from the Foundation that it
could issue no charter, and that ventures which mixed an A.A. group with
medication and education had come to sticky ends elsewhere. To make things
safer, the promoter organized three corporations and became president of them
all. Freshly painted, the new center shone. The warmth of it all spread
through the town. Soon things began to hum. to insure foolproof, continuous
operation, sixty-one rules and regulations were adopted.
But alas, this bright scene was not long in darkening. confusion replaced
serenity. It was found that some drunks yearned for education, but doubted if
they were alcoholics. The personality defects of others could be cured maybe
with a loan. Some were club-minded, but it was just a question of taking care
of the lonely heart. Sometimes the swarming applicants would go for all three
floors. Some would start at the top and come through to the bottom, becoming
club members; others started in the club, pitched a binge, were hospitalized,
then graduated to education on the third floor. It was a beehive of activity,
all right, but unlike a beehive, it was confusion compounded. An A.A. group,
as such, simply couldn't handle this sort of project. All too late that was
discovered. Then came the inevitable explosion - something like that day the
boiler burst in Wombley's Clapboard Factory. A chill chokedamp of fear and
frustration fell over the group.
When that lifted, a wonderful thing had happened. The head promoter wrote the
Foundation office. He said he wished he'd paid attention to A.A. experience.
Then he did something else that was to become an A.A. classic. It all went on
a little card about golf-score size. The cover read: "Middleton Group #1.
Rule #62." Once the card was unfolded, a single pungent sentence leaped to the
eye: "Don't take yourself too damn seriously."
Thus it was that under Tradition Four an A.A. group had exercised its right to
be wrong. Moreover, it had performed a great service for Alcoholics Anonymous,
because it had been humbly willing to apply the lessons it learned. It had
picked itself up with a laugh and gone on to better things. Even the chief
architect, standing in the ruins of his dream, could laugh at himself - and
that is the very acme of humility.
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Tradition Five
"Each group has but one primary purpose - to carry it's message to the alcoholic who still suffers."
"Shoemaker, stick to thy last!" ... better do one thing supremely well than
many badly. That is the central theme of this Tradition. Around it our
Society gathers in unity. The very life of our Fellowship requires the
preservation of this principle.
Alcoholics Anonymous can be likened to a group of physicians who might find a
cure for cancer, and upon whose concerted work would depend the answer for
sufferers of this disease. True, each physician in such a group might have his
own specialty. Every doctor concerned would at times wish he could devote
himself to his chosen field rather than work only with the group. But once
these men had hit upon c cure, once it became apparent that only by their
united effort could this be accomplished, then all of them would feel bound to
devote themselves solely to the relief of cancer. In the radiance of such a
miraculous discovery, any doctor would set his other ambitions aside, at
whatever personal cost.
Just as firmly bound by obligation are the members of Alcoholics Anonymous,
who have demonstrated that they can help problem drinkers as others seldom can.
The unique ability of each A.A. to identify himself with, and bring recovery
to, the newcomer in no way depends upon his learning, eloquence, or on any
special individual skills. the only thing that matters is that he is an
alcoholic who has found a key to sobriety. These legacies of suffering and of
recovery are easily passed among alcoholics, one to the other. This is our
gift from god, and its bestowal upon others like us is the one aim that today
animates A.A.'s all around the globe.
There is another reason for this singleness of purpose. It is the great
paradox of A.A. that we know we can seldom keep the precious gift of sobriety
unless we give it away. If a group of doctors possessed a cancer cure, they
might be conscience-stricken if they failed their mission through self-seeking.
Yet such a failure wouldn't jeopardize their personal survival. for us, if we
neglect those who are still sick, there is unremitting danger to our own lives
and sanity. Under these compulsions of self-preservation, duty, and love, it
is not strange that our Society has concluded that it has but one high mission
- to carry the A.A. message to those who don't know there is a way out.
Highlighting the wisdom of A.A.'s single purpose, a member tells this story:
"Restless one day, I felt I'd better do some Twelfth Step work. Maybe I
should take out some insurance against a slip. But first I'd have to find a
drunk to work on.
"So I hopped the subway to Towns Hospital, where I asked Dr. Silkworth if he
had a prospect. `Nothing too promising,' the little doc said. `There's just
one chap on the third floor who might be a possibility. But he's an awfully
tough Irishman. I never saw a man so obstinate. He shouts that if his partner
would treat him better, and his wife would leave him alone, he'd soon solve his
alcohol problem. He's had a bad case of D.T.'s, he's pretty foggy, and he's
very suspicious of everybody. Doesn't sound too good, does it? But working
with him may do something for you, so why don't you have a go at it?'
"I was soon sitting beside a big hulk of a man. Decidedly unfriendly, he
stared at me out of eyes which were slits in his red and swollen face. I had
to agree with the doctor - he certainly didn't look god. But I told him my own
story. I explained what a wonderful Fellowship we had, how well we understood
each other. I bore down hard on the hopelessness of the drunk's dilemma. I
insisted that few drunks could ever get well on their own steam, but that in
our groups we could do together what we could not do separately. He
interrupted to scoff at this and asserted he'd fix his wife, his partner, and
his alcoholism by himself. Sarcastically he asked, `How much does your scheme
cost?'
"I was thankful I could tell him, `Nothing at all.'
"His next question: `What are you getting out of it?'
"Of course, my answer was `My own sobriety and a mighty happy life.'
"Still dubious, he demanded, `Do you really mean the only reason you are here
is to try and help me and to help yourself?'
"`Yes,' I said. `That's absolutely all there is to it. There's no angle.'
"Then, hesitantly, I ventured to talk about the spiritual side of our program.
What a freeze that drunk gave me! I'd no sooner got the word `spiritual' out
of my mouth than he pounced. `Oh!' he said. `Now I get it! You're
proselytizing for some damn religious sect or other. Where do you get that "no
angle" stuff? I belong to a great church that means everything to me. You've
got a nerve to come in here talking religion!"
"Thank heaven I came up with the right answer for that one. It was based
foursquare on the single purpose of A.A. `You have faith,' I said. `Perhaps
far deeper faith than mine. No doubt you're better taught in religious matters
than I. So I can't tell you anything about religion. I don't even want to
try. I'll bet, too, that you could give me a letter-perfect definition of
humility. But from what you've told me about yourself and your problems and
how you propose to lock them, I think I know what's wrong.'
"`Okay,' he said. `Give me the business.'
"`Well,' I said, `I think you're just a conceited Irishman who thinks he can
run the whole show.'
"This really rocked him. But as he calmed down, he began to listen while I
tried to show him that humility was the main key to sobriety. Finally, he saw
that I wasn't attempting to change his religious views, that I wanted him to
find the grace in his own religion that would aid his recovery. From there on
we got along fine.
"Now," concludes the oldtimer, "suppose I'd been obliged to talk to this man
on religious grounds? Suppose my answer had to be that A.A. needed a lot of
money; that A.A. went in for education, hospital, and rehabilitation? Suppose
I'd suggested that I'd take a hand in his domestic and business affairs? Where
would we have wound up? No place, of course."
Years later, this tough Irish customer liked to say, "my sponsor sold me one
idea, and that was sobriety. At the time, I couldn't have bought anything
else."
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Tradition Six
"An A.A. group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the A.A. name to
any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property,
and prestige divert us from our primary purpose."
The moment we saw that we had an answer for alcoholism, it was reasonable (or
so it seemed at the time) for us to feel that we might have the answer to a lot
of other things. The A.A. groups, many thought, could go into business, might
finance any enterprise whatever in the total field of alcoholism. In fact, we
felt duty-bound to throw the whole weight of the A.A. name behind any
meritorious cause.
Here are some of the things we dreamed. Hospitals didn't like alcoholics, so
we thought we'd build a hospital chain of our own. People needed to be told
what alcoholism was, so we'd educate the public, even rewrite school and
medical textbooks. We'd gather up derelicts from skid rows, sort out those who
could get well, and make it possible for the rest to earn their livelihood in a
kind of quarantined confinement. Maybe these places would make large sums of
money to carry on our other good works. We seriously thought of rewriting the
laws of the land , and having it declared that alcoholics are sick people. No
more would they be jailed; judges would parole them in our custody. We'd spill
A.A. into the dark regions of dope addiction and criminality. We'd form groups
of depressive and paranoid folks; the deeper the neurosis, the better we'd like
it. It stood to reason that if alcoholism could be licked, so could any
problem.
It occurred to us that we could take what we had into the factories and cause
laborers and capitalists to love each other. Our uncompromising honesty might
soon clean up politics. With one arm around the shoulder of medicine, we'd
resolve their differences. Having learned to live so happily, we'd show
everybody else how. Why, we thought, our Society of Alcoholics Anonymous might
prove to be the spearhead of a new spiritual advance! We might transform the
world.
Yes, we of A.A. did dream those dreams. How natural that was, since most
alcoholics are bankrupt idealists. Nearly every one of us had wished to do
great good, perform great deeds, and embody great ideals. We are all
perfectionists who, failing perfection, have gone to the other extreme and
settled for the bottle and the blackout. Providence, through A.A., had brought
us within reach of our highest expectations. So why shouldn't we share our way
of life with everyone?
Whereupon we tried A.A. hospitals-they all bogged down because you cannot put
an A.A. group into business; too many busybody cooks spoil the broth. A.A.
groups had their fling at education, and when they began to publicly whoop up
the merits of this or that brand, people became confused. Did A.A. fix drunks
or was it an educational project? Was A.A. spiritual or was it medical? Was
it a reform movement? In consternation, we saw ourselves getting married to
all kinds of enterprises, some good and some not so good. Watching alcoholics
committed will-nilly to prisons or asylums, we began to cry, "There oughtta be
a law!" A.A.'s commenced to thump tables in legislative committee rooms and
agitated for legal reform. That made good newspaper copy, but little else. We
saw we'd soon be mired in politics. Even inside A.A. we found it imperative to
remove the A.A. name from clubs and Twelfth Step houses
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These adventures implanted a deep-rooted conviction that in no circumstances
could we endorse any related enterprise, no matter how good. We of Alcoholics
Anonymous could not be all things to all men, nor should we try.
Years ago this principle of "no endorsement" was put to a vital test. Some
of the great distilling companies proposed to go into the field of alcohol
education. It would be a good thing, they believed, for the liquor trade to
show a sense of public responsibility. They wanted to say that liquor should
be enjoyed, not misused; hard drinkers ought to slow down, and problem
drinkers-alcoholics-should not drink at all.
In one of their trade associations, the question arose of just how this
campaign should be handled. Of course, they would use the resources of radio,
press, and films to make their point. But what kind of person should head the
job? They immediately thought of Alcoholics Anonymous. If they could find a
good public relations man in our ranks, why wouldn't he be ideal? He'd
certainly know the problem. His connection with A.A. would be valuable,
because the Fellowship stood high in public favor and hadn't an enemy in the
world.
Soon they'd spotted their man, an A.A. with the necessary experience.
Straightway he appeared at New York's A.A. headquarters, asking, "Is there
anything in our tradition that suggests I shouldn't take a job like this one?
The kind of education seems good to me, and is not too controversial. Do you
headquarters folks see any bugs in it?"
At first glance, it did look like a good thing. Then doubt crept in. The
association wanted to use our member's full name in all its advertising; he was
to be described both as its director of publicity and as a member of Alcoholics
Anonymous. Of course, there couldn't be the slightest objection if such an
association hired an A.A. member solely because of his public relations ability
and his knowledge of alcoholism. But that wasn't the whole story, for in this
case not only was an A.A. member to break his anonymity at a public level, he
was to link the name Alcoholics Anonymous to this particular educational
project in the minds of millions. It would be bound to appear that A.A. was
now backing education-liquor trade association style.
The minute we saw this compromising fact for what it was, we asked the
prospective publicity director how he felt about it. "Great guns!" he said.
"Of course I can't take the job. The ink wouldn't be dry on the first ad
before an awful shriek would go up from the dry camp. They'd be out with
lanterns looking for an honest A.A. to plump for their brand of education.
A.A. would land exactly in the middle of the wet-dry controversy. Half the
people in this country would think we'd signed up with the drys, the other half
would think we'd joined the wets. What a mess!"
"Nevertheless," we pointed out, "you still have a legal right to take this
job."
"I know that," he said. "But this is no time for legalities. Alcoholics
Anonymous saved my life, and it comes first. I certainly won't be the guy to
land A.A. in big-time trouble, and this would really do it!"
Concerning endorsements, our friend had said it all. We saw as never before
that we could not lend the A.A. name to any cause other than our own.
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Tradition Seven
"Every A.A. group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions."
SELF-SUPPORTING alcoholics? Who ever heard of such a thing? Yet we find
that's what we have to be. This principle is telling evidence of the profound
change that A.A. has wrought in all of us. Everybody knows that active
alcoholics scream that they have no troubles money can't cure. Always, we've
had our hands out. Time out of mind we've been dependent upon somebody,
usually money-wise. When a society composed entirely of alcoholics says it's
going to pay its bills, that's really news.
Probably no A.A. Tradition had the labor pains this one did. In early times,
we were all broke. When you add to this the habitual supposition that people
ought to give money to alcoholics trying to stay sober, it can be understood
why we thought we deserved a pile of folding money. What great things A.A.
would be able to do with it! But oddly enough, people who had money thought
otherwise. They figured that it was high time we now--sober--paid our own way.
So our Fellowship stayed poor because it had to.
There was another reason for our collective poverty. It was soon apparent
that while alcoholics would spend lavishly on Twelfth Step cases, they had a
terrific aversion to dropping money into a meeting-place hat for group
purposes. We were astounded to find that we were as tight as the bark on a
tree. So A.A., the movement, started and stayed broke, while its individual
members waxed prosperous.
Alcoholics are certainly all-or-nothing people. Our reactions to money prove
this. As A.A. emerged from its infancy into adolescence, we swung from the
idea that we needed vast sums of money to the notion that A.A. shouldn't have
any. On every lip were the words "You can't mix A.A. and money. We shall have
to separate the spiritual from the material." We took this violent new tack
because here and there members had tied to make money out of their A.A.
connections, and we feared we'd be exploited. Now and then, grateful
benefactors had endowed clubhouses, and as a result there was sometimes outside
interference in our affairs. We had been presented with a hospital, and almost
immediately the donor's son became its principal patient and would-be manager.
One A.A. group was given five thousand dollars to do with what it would. The
hassle over that chunk of money played havoc for years. Frightened by these
complications, some groups refused to have a cent in their treasuries.
Despite these misgivings, we had to recognize the fact that A.A. had to
function. Meeting places cost something. To save whole areas from turmoil,
small offices had to be set up, telephones installed, and a few full-time
secretaries hired. Over many protests, these things were accomplished. We saw
that if they weren't, the man coming in the door couldn't get a break. These
simple services would require small sums of money which we could and would pay
ourselves. At last the pendulum stopped swinging and pointed straight at
Tradition Seven as it reads today.
In this connection, Bill likes to tell the following pointed story. He
explains that when Jack Alexander's Saturday Evening Post piece broke in
1941, thousands of frantic letters from distraught alcoholics and their
families hit the Foundation* letterbox in New York. "Our office staff,"
Bill says, "consisted of two people: one devoted secretary and myself. How
could this landslide of appeals be met? We'd have to have some more full-time
help, that was sure. So we asked the A.A. groups for voluntary contributions.
Would they send us a dollar a member a year? Otherwise this heartbreaking mail
would have to go unanswered.
"To my surprise, the response of the groups was slow. I got mighty sore
about it. Looking at this avalanche of mail one morning at the office, I paced
up and down ranting how irresponsible and tightwad my fellow members were.
Just then an old acquaintance stuck a tousled and aching head in the door. He
was our prize slippee. I could see he had an awful hangover. Remembering some
of my own, my heart filled with pit. I motioned him to my inside cubicle and
produced a five-dollar bill. As my total income was thirty dollars a week at
the time, this was a fairly large donation. Lois really needed the money for
groceries, but that didn't stop me. The intense relief on my friend's face
warmed my heart. I felt especially virtuous as I thought of all the ex-drunks
who wouldn't even send the Foundation a dollar apiece, and here I was gladly
making a five-dollar investment to fix a hangover.
"The meeting that night was at New York's old 24th Street Clubhouse. During
the intermission, the treasurer gave a timid talk on how broke the club was.
(That was in the period when you couldn't mix money and A.A.) But finally he
said it--the landlord would put us out if we didn't pay up. He concluded his
remarks by saying, "Now boys, please go heavier on the hat tonight, will
you?"
"I heard all this quite plainly, as I was piously trying to convert a
newcomer who sat next to me. The hat came in my direction, and I reached into
my pocket. Still working on my prospect, I fumbled and came up with a
fifty-cent piece. Somehow it looked like a very big coin. Hastily, I dropped
it back and fished out a dime, which clinked thinly as I dropped it in the hat.
Hats never got folding money in those days.
"Then I woke up. I who had boasted my generosity that morning was treating
my own club worse than the distant alcoholics who had forgotten to send the
Foundation their dollars. I realized that my five-dollar gift to the slippee
was an ego-feeding proposition, bad for him and bad for me. There was
a place in A.A. where spirituality and money would mix, and that was in the
hat!"
There is another story about money. One night in 1948, the trustees of the
Foundation were having their quarterly meeting. The agenda discussion included
a very important question. A certain lady had died. When her will was read,
it was discovered she had left Alcoholics Anonymous in trust with the Alcoholic
Foundation a sum of ten thousand dollars. The question was: Should A.A. take
the gift?
What a debate we had on that one! The Foundation was really hard up just
then; the groups weren't sending in enough for the support of the office; we
had been tossing in all the book income and even that hadn't been enough. The
reserve was melting like snow in springtime. We needed that ten thousand
dollars. "Maybe," some said, "the groups will never fully support the office.
We can't let it shut down; it's far too vital. Yes, let's take the money.
Let's take all such donations in the future. We're going to need them."
Then came the opposition. They pointed out that the Foundation board already
knew of a total of half a million dollars set aside for A.A. in the wills of
people still alive. Heaven only knew how much there was we hadn't heard about.
If outside donations weren't declined, absolutely cut off, then the Foundation
would one day become rich. Moreover, at the slightest intimation to the
general public from our trustees that we needed money, we could become
immensely rich. Compared to this prospect, the ten thousand dollars under
consideration wasn't much, but like the alcoholic's first drink it would, if
taken, inevitably set up a disastrous chain reaction. Where would that land
us? Whoever pays the piper is apt to call the tune, and if the A.A. Foundation
obtained money from outside sources, its trustees might be tempted to run
things without reference to the wishes of A.A. as a while. Relieved of
responsibility, every alcoholic would shrug and say, "Oh, the Foundation is
wealthy--why should I bother?" The pressure of that fat treasury would surely
tempt the board to invent all kinds of schemes to do good with such funds, and
so divert A.A. from its primary purpose. The moment that happened, our
Fellowship's confidence would be shaken. The board would be isolated, and
would fall under heavy attack of criticism from both A.A. and the public.
These were the possibilities, pro and con.
Then our trustees wrote a bright page of A.A. history. They declared for the
principle that A.A. must always stay poor. Bare running expenses plus a
prudent reserve would henceforth be the Foundation's financial policy.
Difficult as it was, they officially declined that ten thousand dollars, and
adopted a formal, airtight resolution that all such future gifts would be
similarly declined. At that moment, we believe, the principle of corporate
poverty was firmly and finally embedded in A.A. tradition.
When these facts were printed, there was a profound reaction. To people
familiar with endless drives for charitable funds, A.A. presented a strange
and refreshing spectacle. Approving editorials here and abroad generated a
wave of confidence in the integrity of Alcoholics Anonymous. They pointed out
that the irresponsible had become responsible, and that by making financial
independence part of its tradition, Alcoholics Anonymous had revived an ideal
that its era had almost forgotten.
* In 1954, the name of the Alcoholic Foundation, Inc., was changed to
the General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous, Inc., and the Foundation
office is now the General Service Office.
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Tradition Eight
"Alcoholics Anonymous should remain forever nonprofessional, but our
service centers may employ special workers."
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS will never have a professional class. We have
gained some understanding of the ancient words "Freely ye have received, freely
give." We have discovered that at the point of professionalism, money and
spirituality do not mis. Almost no recovery from alcoholism has ever been
brought about by the world's best professionals, whether medical or religious.
We do not decry professionalism in other fields, but we accept the sober fact
that it does not work for us. Every time we have tried to professionalize our
Twelfth Step, the result has been exactly the same: Our single purpose has
been defeated.
Alcoholics simply will not listen to a pain twelfth-stepper. Almost from the
beginning, we have been positive that face-to-face work with the alcoholic who
suffers could be based only on the desire to help and be helped. When an A.A.
talks for money, whether at a meeting or to a single newcomer, it can have a
very bad effect on him, too. The money motive compromises him and everything
he says and does for his prospect. This has always been so obvious that only a
very few A.A.'s have ever worked the Twelfth Step for a fee.
Despite this certainty, it is nevertheless true that few subjects have been
the cause of more contention within our Fellowship than professionalism.
Caretakers who swept floors, cooks who fried hamburgers, secretaries in
offices, authors writing books--all these we have seen hotly assailed because
they were, as their critics angrily remarked, "making money out of A.A."
Ignoring the fact that these labors were not Twelfth Step jobs at all, the
critics attacked as A.A. professionals these workers of ours who were often
doing thankless tasks that no one else could or would do. Even greater furors
were provoked when A.A. members began to run rest homes and farms for
alcoholics, when some hired out to corporations as personnel men in charge of
the alcoholic wards, when others entered the field of alcohol education. In
all these instances, and more, it was claimed that A.A. knowledge and
experience were being sold for money, hence these people, too, were
professionals.
At last, however, a plain line of cleavage could be seen between
professionalism and nonprofessionalism. When we had agreed that the Twelfth
Step couldn't be sold for money, we had been wise. But when we had declared
that our Fellowship couldn't hire service workers nor could any A.A. member
carry our knowledge into other fields, we were taking the counsel of fear, fear
which today has been largely dispelled in the light of experience.
Take the case of the club janitor and cook. If a club is going to function,
it has to be habitable and hospitable. We tried volunteers, who were quickly
disenchanted with sweeping floors and brewing coffee seven days a week. They
just didn't show up. Even more important, an empty club couldn't answer its
telephone, but it was an open invitation to a drunk on a binge who possessed a
spare key. So somebody had to look after the place full time. If we hired an
alcoholic, he'd receive only what we'd have to pay a nonalcoholic for the same
job. The job was not to do Twelfth Step work; it was to make Twelfth
Step work possible. It was a service proposition, pure and simple.
Neither could A.A. itself function without full-time workers. At the
Foundation* and intergroup offices, we couldn't employ nonalcoholics as
secretaries; we had to have people who knew the A.A. pitch. But the minute we
hired them, the ultraconservative and fearful ones shrilled, "Professionalism!"
At one period, the status of these faithful servants was almost unbearable.
They weren't asked to speak at A.A. meetings because they were `making money
out of A.A." At times, they were actually shunned by fellow members. Even the
charitably disposed described them as "a necessary evil." Committees took full
advantage of this attitude to depress their salaries. They could regain some
measure of virtue, it was thought, if they worked for A.A. real cheap. These
notions persisted for years. Then we saw that if a hard working secretary
answered the phone dozens of times a day, listened to twenty wailing wives,
arranged hospitalization and got sponsorship for ten newcomers, and was gently
diplomatic with the irate drunk who complained about the job she was doing and
how she was overpaid, then such a person could surely not be called a
professional A.A. She was not professionalizing the Twelfth Step; she was just
making it possible. She was helping to give the man coming in the door the
break he ought to have. Volunteer committeemen and assistants could be of
great help, but they could not be expected to carry this load day in and day
out.
At the Foundation, the same story repeats itself. Eight tons of books and
literature per month do not package and channel themselves all over the world.
Sacks of letters on every conceivable A.A. problem ranging from a lonely-heart
Eskimo to the growing pains of thousands of groups must be answered by people
who know. Right contacts with the world outside have to be maintained. A.A.'s
lifelines have to be tended. So we hire A.A. staff members. We pay them well,
and they earn what they get. They are professional secretaries, * but they
certainly are not professional A.A.'s.
*The work of the present-day staff members has no counterpart among the job
categories of commercial organizations. These A.A.'s bring a wide range of
business and professional experience to their service at G.S.O.
Perhaps the fear will always lurk in every A.A. heart that one day our name
will be exploited by somebody for real cash. Even the suggestion of such a
thing never fails to whip up a hurricane, and we have discovered that
hurricanes have a way of mauling with equal severity both the just and the
unjust. They are always unreasonable.
No individuals have been more buffeted by such emotional gusts than those
A.A.'s bold enough to accept employment with outside agencies dealing with the
alcohol problem. A university wanted an A.A. member to educate the public on
alcoholism. A corporation wanted a personnel man familiar with the subject. A
state drunk farm wanted a manager who could really handle inebriates. A city
wanted an experienced social worker who understood what alcohol could do to a
family. A state alcohol commission wanted a paid researcher. These are only a
few of the jobs which A.A. members as individuals have been asked to fill. Now
and then, A.A. members have bought farms or rest homes where badly beat-up
topers could find needed care. The question was--and sometimes still is--are
such activities to be branded as professionalism under A.A. tradition?
We think the answer is "No. Members who select such full-time
careers do not professionalize A.A.'s Twelfth Step." The road to this
conclusion was long and rocky. At first, we couldn't see the real issue
involved. In former days, the moment an A.A. hired out to such enterprises, he
was immediately tempted to use the name Alcoholics Anonymous for publicity or
money-raising purposes. Drunk farms, educational ventures, state legislatures,
and commissions advertised the fact that A.A. members served them.
Unthinkingly, A.A.'s so employed recklessly broke anonymity to thump the tub
for their pet enterprise. For this reason, some very good causes and all
connected with them suffered unjust criticism from A.A. groups. More often
than not, these onslaughts were spearheaded by the cry "Professionalism! That
guy is making money out of A.A.'s Twelfth Step work. The violation in these
instances was not professionalism at all; it was breaking anonymity. A.A.'s
sole purpose was being compromised, and the name of Alcoholics Anonymous was
being misused.
It is significant, now that almost no A.A. in our Fellowship breaks
anonymity at the public level, that nearly all these fears have subsided. We
see that we have no right or need to discourage A.A.'s who wish to work as
individuals in these wider fields. It would be actually antisocial were we to
forbid them. We cannot declare A.A. such a closed corporation that we keep our
knowledge and experience top secret. If an A.A. member acting as a citizen can
become a better researcher, educator, personnel officer, then why not?
Everybody gains, and we have lost nothing. True, some of the projects to which
A.A.'s have attached themselves have been ill-conceived, but that makes not the
slightest difference with the principle involved.
This is the exciting welter of events which has finally cast up A.A.'s
Tradition of nonprofessionalism. Our Twelfth Step is never to be paid for, but
those who labor in service for us are worthy of their hire.
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Tradition Nine
"A.A., as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service
boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve."
WHEN Tradition Nine was first written, it said that "Alcoholics
Anonymous needs that least possible organization." In years since then, we
have changed our minds about that. Today, we are able to say with assurance
that Alcoholics Anonymous--A.A. as a whole--should never be organized at all.
Then, in seeming contradiction, we proceed to create special service boards and
committees which in themselves are organized. How, then, can we have an
unorganized movement which can and does create a service organization for
itself? Scanning this puzzler, people say, "What do they mean, no
organization?"
Well, let's see. Did anyone ever hear of a nation, a church, a political
party, even a benevolent association that had no membership rules? Did anyone
ever hear of a society which couldn't somehow discipline its members and
enforce obedience to necessary rules and regulations? Doesn't nearly every
society on earth give authority to some of its members to impose obedience upon
the rest and to punish or expel offenders? Therefore, every nation, in fact
every form of society, has to be a government administered by human beings.
Power to direct or govern is the essence of organization everywhere.
Yet Alcoholics Anonymous is an exception. It does not conform to this
pattern. Neither is General Service Conference, its Foundation Board,*
nor the humblest group committee can issue a single directive to an A.A.
member and make it stick, let alone mete out any punishment. We've tried it
lots of times, but utter failure is always the result. Groups have tried to
expel members, but the banished have come back to sit in the meeting place,
saying "This is life for us; you can't keep us out." Committees have
instructed many an A.A. to stop working on a chronic backslider, only to be
told: "How I do my Twelfth Step work is my business. Who are you to judge?"
This doesn't mean an A.A. won't take advice or suggestions from more
experienced members, but he surely won't take orders. Who is more unpopular
than the old-time A.A., full of wisdom, who moves to another area and tries to
tell the group there how to run its business? He and all like him who "view
with alarm for the good of A.A." meet the most stubborn resistance or, worse
still, laughter.
You might think A.A.'s headquarters in New York would be an exception.
Surely, the people there would have to have some authority. But long ago,
trustees and staff members alike found they could do no more than make
suggestions, and very mild ones at that. They even had to coin a couple of
sentences which still go into half the letters they write: "Of course, you are
at perfect liberty to handle this matter any way you please. But the majority
experience in A.A. does seem to suggest . . . " Now, that attitude is far
removed from central government, isn't it? We recognize that alcoholics can't
be dictated to--individually or collectively.
At this juncture, we can hear a churchman exclaim, "They are making
disobedience a virtue!" He is joined by a psychiatrist who says, "Defiant
brats! They won't grow up and conform to social usage!" The man in the street
say, "I don't understand it. They must be nuts!" But all these observers have
overlooked something unique in Alcoholics Anonymous. Unless each A.A. member
follows to the best of his ability our suggested Twelve Steps to recovery, he
almost certainly signs his own death warrant. His drunkenness and dissolution
are not penalties inflicted by people in authority; they result from his
personal disobedience to spiritual principles.
The same stern threat applies to the group itself. Unless there is
approximate conformity to A.A.'s Twelve Traditions, the group, too, can
deteriorate and die. So we of A.A. do obey spiritual principles, first because
we must, and ultimately because we love the kind of life such obedience brings.
Great suffering and great love are A.A.'s disciplinarians; we need no others.
It is clear now that we ought never to name boards to govern us, but it is
equally clear that we shall always need to authorize workers to serve us. It
is the difference between the spirit of vested authority and the spirit of
service, two concepts which are sometimes poles apart. It is in this spirit of
service that we elect the A.A. group's informal rotating committee, the
intergroup association for the area, and the General Service Conferences of
Alcoholics Anonymous for A.A. as a whole. Even our Foundation, once an
independent board, is today directly accountable to our Fellowship. Its
trustees are the caretakers and expediters of our world services.
Just as the aim of each A.A. member is personal sobriety, the aim of our
services is to bring sobriety within reach of all who want it. If nobody does
the group's chores, if the area's telephone rings unanswered, if we do not
reply to our mail, then A.A. as we know it would stop. Our communications
lines with those who need our help would be broken.
A.A. has to function, but at the same time it must avoid those dangers of
great wealth, prestige, and entrenched power which necessarily tempt other
societies. Though Tradition Nine at first sight seems to deal with a purely
practical matter, in its actual operation it discloses a society without
organization, animated only by the spirit of service--a true fellowship.
*In 1954, the name of the Alcoholic Foundation, Inc., was changed to
the General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous, Inc., and the Foundation
office is now the General Service Office.
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Tradition Ten
"Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A. name
ought never be drawn into public controversy."
NEVER since it began has Alcoholics Anonymous been divided by a major
controversial issue. Nor has our Fellowship ever publicly taken sides on any
question in an embattled world. This, however, has been no earned virtue. It
could almost be said that we were born with it, for, as one old-timer recently
declared, "Practically never have I heard a heated religious, political, or
reform argument among A.A. members. So long as we don't argue these matters
privately, it's a cinch we never shall publicly."
As by some deep instinct, we A.A.'s have known from the very beginning that
we must never, no matter what the provocation, publicly take sides in any
fight, even a worthy one. All history affords us the spectacle of striving
nations and groups finally torn asunder because they were designed for, or
tempted into, controversy. Others fell apart because of sheer
self-righteousness while trying to enforce upon the rest of mankind some
millennium of their own specification. In our own times, we have seen millions
die in political and economic wars often spurred by religious and racial
difference. We live in the imminent possibility of a fresh holocaust to
determine how men shall be governed, and how the products of nature and toil
shall be divided among them. That is the spiritual climate in which A.A. was
born, and by God's grace has nevertheless flourished.
Let us reemphasize that this reluctance to fight one another or anybody else
is not counted as some special virtue which makes us feel superior to other
people. Nor does it means that the members of Alcoholics Anonymous, now
restored as citizens of the world, are going to back away from their
individual responsibilities to act as they see the right upon issues of our
time. But when it comes to A.A. as a whole, that's quite a different matter.
In this respect, we do not enter into public controversy, because we know that
our Society will perish if it does. We conceive the survival and spread of
Alcoholics Anonymous to be something of far greater importance than the weight
we could collectively throw back of any other cause. Since recovery from
alcoholism is life itself to us, it is imperative that we preserve in full
strength our means of survival.
Maybe this sounds as thought the alcoholics in A.A. had suddenly gone
peaceable, and become one great big happy family. Of course, this isn't so at
all. Human beings that we are, we squabble. Before we leveled off a bit, A.A.
looked more like one prodigious squabble than anything else, at least on the
surface. A corporation director who had just voted a company expenditure of a
hundred thousand dollars would appear at an A.A. business meeting and blow his
top over an outlay of twenty-five dollars' worth of needed postage stamps.
Disliking the attempt of some to manage a group, half its membership might
angrily rush off to form another group more to their liking. Elders,
temporarily turned Pharisee, have sulked. Bitter attacks have been directed
against people suspected of mixed motives. Despite their din, our puny rows
never did A.A. a particle of harm. They were just part and parcel of learning
to work and live together. Let it be noted, too, that they were almost always
concerned with ways to make A.A. more effective, how to do the most good for
the most alcoholics.
The Washingtonian Society, a movement among alcoholics which started in
Baltimore a century ago, almost discovered the answer to alcoholism. At first,
the society was composed entirely of alcoholics trying to help one another. The
early members foresaw that they should dedicate themselves to this sole aim.
In many respects, the Washingtonians were akin to A.A. of today. Their
membership passed the hundred thousand mark. Had they been left to themselves,
and had they stuck to their one goal, they might have found the rest of the
answer. But this didn't happen. Instead, the Washingtonians permitted
politicians and reformers, both alcoholic and nonalcoholic, to use the society
for their own purposes. Abolition of slavery, for example, was a stormy
political issue then. Soon, Washingtonian speakers violently and publicly took
sides on this question. Maybe the society could have survived the abolition
controversy, but it didn't have a chance from the moment it determined to
reform America's drinking habits. When the Washingtonians became temperance
crusaders, within a very few years they had completely lost their effectiveness
in helping alcoholics.
The lesson to be learned from the Washingtonians was not overlooked by
Alcoholics Anonymous. As we surveyed the wreck of that movement, early A.A.
members resolved to keep our Society out of public controversy. Thus was laid
the cornerstone for Tradition Ten: "Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on
outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn into public
controversy."
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Tradition Eleven
"Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather
than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of
press, radio, and films."
WITHOUT its legions of well-wishers, A.A. could never have grown as it
has. Throughout the world, immense and favorable publicity of every
description has been the principal means of bringing alcoholics into our
Fellowship. In A.A. offices, clubs, and homes, telephones ring constantly.
One voice says, "I read a piece in the newspapers . . ."; another, "We heard a
radio program . . ."; and still another, "We saw a moving picture . . ." or "We
something about A.A. on television. . . ." It is no exaggeration to say that
half of A.A.'s membership has been led to us through channels like these.
The inquiring voices are not all alcoholics or their families. Doctors read
medical papers about Alcoholics Anonymous and call for more information.
Clergymen see articles in their church journals and also make inquiries.
Employers learn that great corporations have set their approval upon us, and
wish to discover what can be done about alcoholism in their own firms.
Therefore, a great responsibility fell upon us to develop the best possible
public relations policy for Alcoholics Anonymous. Through many painful
experiences, we think we have arrived at what that policy ought to be. It is
the opposite in many ways of usual promotional practice. We found that we had
to rely upon the principle of attraction rather than of promotion.
Let's see how these two contrasting ideas--attraction and promotion--work
out. A political party wishes to win an election, so it advertises the virtues
of its leadership to draw votes. A worthy charity wants to raise money;
forthwith, its letterhead shows the name of every distinguished person who
support can be obtained. Much of the political, economic, and religious life
of the world is dependent upon publicized leadership. People who symbolize
causes and ideas fill a deep human need. We of A.A. do not question that. But
we do have to soberly face the fact that being in the public eye is hazardous,
especially for us. By temperament, nearly every one of us had been an
irrepressible promoter, and the prospect of a society composed almost entirely
of promoters was frightening. Considering this explosive factor, we knew we
had to exercise self-restraint.
The way this restraint paid off was startling. It resulted in more favorable
publicity of Alcoholics Anonymous than could possibly have been obtained
through all the arts and abilities of A.A.'s best press agents. Obviously,
A.A. had to be publicized somehow, so we resorted to the idea that it would be
far better to let our friends do this for us. Precisely that has happened, to
an unbelievable extent. Veteran newsmen, trained doubters that they are, have
gone all out to carry A.A.'s message. To them, we are something more than the
source of good stories. On almost every newsfront, the men and women of the
press have attached themselves to us as friends.
In the beginning, the press could not understand our refusal of all personal
publicity. They were genuinely baffled by our insistence upon anonymity. Then
they got the point. Here was something rare in the world--a society which said
it wished to publicize its principles and its work, but not its individual
members. The press was delighted with this attitude. Ever since, these
friends have reported A.A. with an enthusiasm which the most ardent members
would find hard to match.
There was actually a time when the press of America thought the anonymity of
A.A. was better for us than some of our own members did. At on point, about a
hundred of our Society were breaking anonymity at the public level. With
perfectly good intent, these folks declared that the principle of anonymity was
horse-an-buggy stuff, something appropriate to A.A.'s pioneering days. They
were sure that A.A. could go faster and farther if it availed itself of modern
publicity methods. A.A., they pointed out, included many persons of local,
national, or international fame. Provided they were willing--and many
were--why shouldn't their membership be publicized, thereby encouraging others
to join us? These were plausible arguments, but happily our friends of the
writing profession disagreed with them.
The Foundation* wrote letters to practically every news outlet in
North America, setting forth our public relations policy of attraction rather
than promotion, and emphasizing personal anonymity as A.A.'s greatest
protection. Since that time, editors and rewrite men have repeatedly deleted
names and pictures of members from A.A. copy; frequently, they have reminded
ambitious individuals of A.A.'s anonymity policy. They have been sacrificed
good stories to this end. The force of their cooperation has certainly helped.
Only a few A.A. members are left who deliberately break anonymity at the public
level.
This, in brief, in the process by which A.A.'s Tradition Eleven was
constructed. To us, however, it represents far more than a sound public
relations policy. It is more than a denial of self-seeking. This Tradition is
a constant and practical reminder that personal ambition has no place in A.A.
In it, each member becomes an active guardian of our Fellowship.
*In 1954, the name of the Alcoholic Foundation, Inc., was changed to
the General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous, Inc., and the Foundation
office is now the General Service Office.
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Tradition Twelve
"Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions, ever
reminding us to place principles before personalities."
THE spiritual substance of anonymity is sacrifice. Because A.A.'s
Twelve Traditions repeatedly ask us to give up personal desires for the common
good, we realize that the sacrificial spirit--well symbolized by anonymity--is
the foundation of them all. It is A.A.'s proved willingness to make these
sacrifices that gives people their high confidence in our future.
But in the beginning, anonymity was not born of confidence; it was the child
of our early fears. Our first nameless groups of alcoholics were secret
societies. New prospects could find us only through a few trusted friends.
The bare hint of publicity, even for our work, shocked us. Though ex-drinkers,
we still thought we had to hide from public distrust and contempt.
When the Big Book appeared in 1939, we called it "Alcoholics Anonymous." Its
foreword mad this revealing statement: "It is important that we remain
anonymous because are too few, at present, to handle the overwhelming number of
personal appeals which may result from this publication. Being mostly business
or professional folk, we could not well carry on our occupations in such an
event." Between these lines, it is easy to read our fear that large numbers of
incoming people might break our anonymity wide open.
As the A.A. groups multiplied, so did anonymity problems. Enthusiastic over
the spectacular recovery of a brother alcoholic, we'd sometimes discuss those
intimate and harrowing aspects of his case meant for his sponsor's ear alone.
The aggrieved victim would then rightly declare that his trust had been broken.
When such stories got into circulation outside of A.A., the loss of confidence
in our anonymity promise was sever. It frequently turned people from us.
Clearly, every A.A. member's name--and story, too---had to be confidential, if
he wished. This was our first lesson in the practical application of
anonymity.
With characteristic intemperance, however, some of our newcomers cared not at
all for secrecy. They wanted to shout A.A. from the housetops, and did.
Alcoholics barely dry rushed about bright-eyed, buttonholing anyone who would
listen tot heir stories. Others hurried to place themselves before microphones
and cameras. Sometimes, they got distressingly drunk and let their groups down
with a bang. They had changed from A.A. members into A.A. show-offs.
This phenomenon of contrast really set us thinking. Squarely before us was
the question "How anonymous should an A.A. member be?" Our growth made it
plain that we couldn't be a secret society, but it was equally plain that we
couldn't be a vaudeville circuit, either. The charting of a safe path between
these extremes took a long time.
As a rule, the average newcomer wanted his family to know immediately what he
was trying to do. He also wanted to tell others who had tried to help him--his
doctor, his minister, and close friends. As he gained confidence, he felt it
right to explain his new way of life to his employer and business associates.
When opportunities to be helpful came along, he found he could talk easily
about A.A. to almost anyone. These quiet disclosures helped him to lose his
fear of the alcoholic stigma, and spread the news of A.A.'s existence in his
community. Many a new man and woman came to A.A. because of such
conversations. Though not in the strict letter of anonymity, such
communications were well within its spirit.
But it became apparent that the word-of-mouth method was too limited. Our
work, as such, needed to be publicized. The A.A. groups would have to reach
quickly as many despairing alcoholics as they could. Consequently, many groups
began to hold meetings which were open to interested friends and the public, so
that the average citizen could see for himself just what A.A. was all about.
The response to these meetings was warmly sympathetic. Soon, groups began to
receive requests for A.A. speakers to appear before civic organizations, church
groups, and medical societies. Provided anonymity was maintained on these
platforms, and reporters present were cautioned against the use of names or
pictures, the result was fine.
Then came our first few excursions into major publicity, which were
breathtaking. Cleveland's Plain Dealer articles about us ran that
town's membership from a few into hundreds overnight. The news stories of Mr.
Rockefeller's dinner for Alcoholics Anonymous helped double our total
membership in a year's time. Jack Alexander's famous Saturday Evening Post
piece made A.A. a national institution. Such tributes as these brought
opportunities for still more recognition. Other newspapers and magazines
wanted A.A. stories. Film companies wanted to photograph us. Radio, and
finally television, besieged us with requests for appearances. What should we
do?
As this tide offering top public approval swept in, we realized that it could
do us incalculable good or great harm. Everything would depend upon how it was
channeled. We simply couldn't afford to take the chance of letting
self-appointed members present themselves as messiahs representing A.A. before
the whole public. The promoter instinct in us might be our undoing. If even
one publicly got drunk, or was lured into using A.A.'s name for his own
purposes, the damage might be irreparable. At this altitude (press, radio,
films, and television), anonymity--100 percent anonymity--was the only possible
answer. Here, principles would have to come before personalities, without
exception.
These experiences taught us that anonymity is real humility at work. It is
an all-pervading spiritual quality which today keynotes A.A. life everywhere.
Moved by the spirit of anonymity, we try to give up our natural desires for
personal distinction as A.A. members both among fellow alcoholics and before
the general public. As we lay aside these very human aspirations, we believe
that each of us takes part in the weaving of a protective mantle which covers
our whole Society and under which we may grown and work in unity.
We are sure that humility, expressed by anonymity, is the greatest safeguard
that Alcoholics Anonymous can ever have.
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