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Joe Obrin joeobrin@io.com
Hi! although I'm not fat,I think that it is really great that you guys are doing this for the larger people that need help to come to terms with their weight.

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

FAT PEOPLE ARE FUN!!!!!!

Big mama anon@nowhere.com

Thank you for some wonderful resources. It's great to be reminded that I'm not alone. Kelly Dehler, Ct

Kelly Dehler kellyd@99main.com

pat j. anon@nowhere.com

I´m very interested in your opinion about fat people and the way that in treated by society, meanly in a coutry like mine ( Mexico )

Yanez Carlos A. www.cyanes@grupoimsa.com

Hope you don't mind! I'm posting this everywhere there's BBW stuff! Tee hee!.... Hey! You have to check this out! Here's a comic that's not for kids, intelligent, witty, spookie, and fun, with a couple of wonderful BBWs, to boot! Stop by the site at terisuewood.home.ml.org and preview Teri's newest comic coming soon from Sirius Entertainment...DARKLIGHT!!! It's so cool! And please!!! Support it when it comes out! Ask your local comic shop to reserve your copy NOW! Teri, the creator, says it's a real risk to have BBWs in a comic book, in a field that worships "thin", but being a BBW herself, she's making a stand! Buy DARKLIGHT, and start the revolution! LOL! Thanks for listening! See ya, Shadowmaid

Shadowmaid shadowmaid65@hotmail.com

I stumbled across your page looking to see if I could find a site for the Personals service BBW used to have through their magazine. I never answer any of them: I just get my jollies out of reading them, and I'm tired of reading neat descriptions of men only to find a line or so later that they think they want some skinny-minny wench. Well, since I'm here I might as well say it: I'm a super-queen size, 5'4", clean, heterosexual,early 40s, secondary virgin, and my babies recently turned 18. My true preference is toward tall, slender, big-boned, red-headed guys who are aggressive but gentle and know how to play hard to get ( but not too, too hard. ) Enough said. Thanks for the info.

Jennifer Goodin Eternityspring@hotmail.com

very interesting points of view. I am in agreement with most of what you have to say.

IMXoner8ed IMXoner8ed@aol.com

sharon sgrass1@pdq.net

You have a good page. It has many helpful links attached to it as well. Good Job.

"D" 

You can't image--no-perhaps you can-- my feeling of happiness,relief,many more emotions of finding this webpage and all that it contains---it feels great to know I am really not all alone!!! THANK YOU!!!

LADYBIRD LITTLEBABE@WEBTV.NET

I'm fat and I don't care. If people don't like to look at me, they are cordially invited to look at something else!

James T. Peeples peeplj@smh.sch.org

IM GLAD THAT YOU GUYS HAVE SUCH A BIG ORGANIZATION IM GLAD I SURFED IN HERE I FOUND OUT GOOD INFORMATION THANK YOU GUYS!!

ROCHELLE BREAKER-GIRL@WEBTV.COM

Great location, finally positive comments from people like me!

Carol cbroadwell @snet.net

IJUST GOT ON THE WEB THIS WEEK ,THIS IS GREAT!!! I HAVE BEEN FAT SENCE I WAS FIVE.MY FAMILY ON ON BOTH SIDES ARE FAT,THREE ON MY DAD'S SIDE AND SIX ON MY MOM'S.MY BROTHERS [3] AND SISTERS [2] SOME MORE THEN THE OTHERS. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I FOUND SO MUCH INFO FOR FAT PEOPLE.KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK! I WILL BE BACK.

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

Norman Clement charcftn@kode.net

Norman anonymous anon@nowhere.com

GREAT PLACE.I stuggle with being overweight.would like e mail friends from ca who are also overweight

ROBYN R Clark 7@aol.com

Have dieted most of my life --lost 75 pound in the last couple of years--it is a constant struggle even with a daily exercise routine....keep detailed info on my computer weight management program. I suspect that there are calories in fresh air-- would like to chat with fellow strugglers --- my web site is http://www.spacetheology.com I wrote this web site as part of my college class on computers (I teach computer science)...could not use prono to catch attention felt that there was plenty of space fans and religious fans-- have averaged about 33 hits a day according to the daily site report-- Dan Mc Carthy PO Box 2843 Lake Havasu Az 86405-2843

Dan Mc Carthy mac5@redrivernet.com

I would appreciate to receive messages from fat persons as I have difficulties to assume my weight. I speak spanish, french and a little bit english as you have already noticed.

Mónica armor@ctv.es

excellent site. keep up the good work. We need more of this type of thing. I'll be back

Clyde Wilson clyde@rust.net

Thanks for a very informative, interesting, well-organized page! I am a large woman, but I am just getting into this kind of information on the Web, and I am pleased to see so much of a positive nature. A book I would recommend is "Self-Esteem Comes In All Sizes - How to Be Happy and Healthy at Your Natural Weight" by Carol A. Johnson, published by Doubleday, 1995. A very positive, non-militant perspective on self-acceptance and others-acceptance regardless of body size or shape, with many, many helpful resources, especially for women (but men could certainly benefit from it too). Thanks for your website. Kathleen P.S. Did you realize that "anonymous" is misspelled in the Name slot above? (It's not "annonymous"!)

Kathleen Pharis akpharis@centuryinter.net

I agree Fat is not a four letter word. I dont know why people get all upset with that term. Maybe its because people dont like the truth. "the truth hurts". Not I, fat and beautiful is my personal favorite descriptions. Michelle

Michelle Britishbbw

Interested in issues around 1. Helping fat kids and teens grow up with self-acceptance and knowledge of how to take care of the bodies the Goddess gave them; 2. The FDA: Risk-benefit analysis for anti-obesity pharmaceuticals; Effects of exclusion of fat persons from non-obesity related clinical trials; and 3. Connections between fat liberation and disability rights.

Jody Savage savageford@prodigy.com

I am a BBW (size 20) in love with a 500lb BHM. Weight has been an issue for me since college. For my beloved, weight has been a constant source of torment since childhood. While I understand most issues in reference to struggles with weight, I have not experienced the humiliation, degradation, physical pain, or hopelessness my special friend has lived with throughout his life. I sought websites like this one to help me understand the emotions and experiences of my very large, gorgeous, caring, intelligent, respectful, loving, wonderful man. I have a long way to go in terms of helping him see himself as I see him, but this website has been a gift for both of us. Thank you!

shannyn afblks3@msn.com

I love your web site.I have been fat all my life and her always loved it. Keep the good work!

J. Hightower jarodh@hotmail.com

I finally found a home! I'm fat, fit, and fifty-five. I cover a lot of "F's". I've been fat most of my life and I accepted the fact a long time age. If people don't like the way I look, they can get over it. I'm healthy, I,m happy and I don't care what narrow minded people think of me. May I say God Bless You for creating home for me.

Marty Bond mommabond@webtv.net

i just wanna say that it's okay to be fat. you have to be confident of your self. as mentioned earlier ,it is not a sin being fat. nice people will overlook this so called 'defect' and your character will overshine above all. only people with no depth and character themselves will make a fuss over this issue. always keep in mind that people like this are simply not worth our time. treasure those who care and live life to the fullest. love from, one soul who understands

vaishnavi dana vallen vaish@tm.net.my

fantastic!!!!! Needed.... A Favorite! A Winner!!!!

 anonymous snowwhite44

TOM tgrac@aol.com

My wife and I are both fat, happy, with 2 abnormally normal children, a daughter 11 and son 10. I am truly am glad to see this page, for while I don't feel I've conquered my desired size to the point where I will accept my present size as the end-all, I am fine and unashamed of it!

Arthur C. Douglas, Jr tax-best@home.com

anonymous janetspl@home.com

I just been totally pooped on by 3 different guys i met playing chess on the internet because.... although i am witty, articulate, smart when we met face to face - i was still fat. Didnt matter if they were short or bald or whatever. So I am pissed and want to find resources and people who appreciate us who are not Kate Moss or the 3% body fat runner! If there is anyone who wants to play chess at yahoo, let me know!! It is especially tough here in Hawaii where much of the fashions. etc are geared to very small asian women so I also looking for resources for clothing (not Kmart Tshirts), lingerie ( Victoria secret quality), magazines. I always was an activist on other issues and so I am going to become an activist for myself. And I am not really always this cranky!!

Catherine cat127@gte.net

Thanks for the great links

Robin Robinjoys@aol.com

Big girls need lovin' too!

Denise Aston matt.neill@jdasoftware.com

IT`S OK TO BE FAT. I only wish that thin people could see that,too. Thanks! :-)

Elisabeth Bartholdsen anon@nowhere.com

Hello fellow big-ones!WRITE ME! BIG IS BEAUTYFUL!!

Elisabeth Bartholdsen,box 430,9601 Hammerfest, Norway anon@nowhere.com

Great page! Saves me the work of doing it! Wonderful! Please stay online - your site it a wonderful balance to a lot of the b.s. bigotry and cultural myopia out there.

angela w anon@nowhere.com

Andre Brezwan ropla@netway.at

No more diets, no more insults from thin people and more soft, pleasant fat on the ribs of our mistress and lovers!

Andre Brezwan ropla@netway.at

I like this page a lot. As a fat person I have learned not to apologize for my size, and just be happy with who I am.

Black Beauty Getodiva@hotmail.com

I REALLY LOVE YOUR SITE.THANKYOU.I LOVE YOU FOR HAVING THIS AVAILABLE.I'M GLAD THERE IS SOMEWHERE TO TURN TO WHEN YOU NEED SUPPORT.TO ALL THE FAT PEOPLE OF ANYWHERE.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP,WALK PROUDLY.ALWAYS REMEMBER FAT IS WHERE IT'S AT....XZANADU, MUCH LOVE TO ALL

XZANADU TRINIESE@YAHOO.COM

Cool stuff! Thanx muchly!

M.K. Duginske divaduge@hotmail.com

It feels so good to read other people's posts and see myself! And even better to see how many are positive and accepting of where and who they are.

Melita litac123@aol.com

Hi This is my first time here but it made me smile so maybe I will come back. Yes I am a large person,though not happy with this size have come to accept this size 2x.It would make me happy to return to my former size and weight but that for me is just a personal thought.i have never judged anyone by there size[except myself]maybe i should go back into counsling.Keep up the good work and have a great 1999.

carrot carrot028@email.com

I have been over weight since 2nd grade and I can still remember the cruel evil things sais to me. The memories will last my lifetime, but I de feel I'm every attractive and have an excellent personality. I'm divorced after 20 years of marriage, and I hope to find that special man who will accept me, love me, and enjoy my company just because I am me. thanks for allowing me the chance to chat just a second.

mary ann mabrogan@shawneelink.com

great work !

your host anon@nowhere.com

Hi, I love it here. This is the first time I have read something positive about fat people and there are so many links I don't know where to start! I live in the UK. Any info about groups here?

Anke ankekanter@yahoo.com

hi, i wonder why this web not currently update. I want to hear current stuff about this page..hey are you there? it's really long time, now is 1999.Your web is really touching me, because i'm the one who are fat girl,and i almost became lesbian.But now i know i'm not alone. hey anybody there,i want to have a friendship with anybody who see this page.i'm alone,single,18 years old and romantic.....

Hanani {malaysia} nann98@hotmail.com

I found this web site by pure accident and I am so glad I did. It is a great web site. I found it by looking up info on fat acceptance through www.yahoo.com. Great site and keep up the great work... there are a lot of folks who need support. Jodi

Jodi JHess74625@aol.com

This is my first time looking at these sites and it has been great! I am now spending alot of time just following up the links! I am an Australian currently based in England and in the process of moving to Ireland (long story). So hello to any fellow Aussies out there!

Sarah Hyde hydesarah@hotmail.com

While I'm not an extremely large person, (I wear a "small" plus size or a "large" regular size), I get sick of seeing the Calista Lockhart types held up as THE standard of beauty. Personally, I don't think protruding ribcages and collar bones are attractive. What does your weight have to do with the kind of person you are???

Melissa anon@nowhere.com

CATHREID cathreid@yahoo.com

YOU MUST ENJOY YOUR FAT I MYSELF WOULD BE TRULY SAD IF I LOST MY FAT. I EVEN NAMED IT ITS MT WHISKY BELLY SO I SAY FAT TO YOU AND GOODBYE

FAT NEEN 

CailinJo43 CailinJo43@aol

I really like the many Resources.

Steve Cavalier colonial@myhome.net

I am so sick of people thinking fat people have the dam'n plague! I think these skinny minny people think that it will rub off on them!! I have been overweight most of my life and felt ashamed for many years because of my skinny wench of a mother!! Well, I am very beautiful and had no problem ever getting a date. I am happily married now with two beautiful children and one on the way. I have something to say to all of the skinny mean people of the world... We are beautiful and can lose the weight! What are you skinny ugly people going to do???? Can't lose the ugly! :) This is more of a vent than anything. Thanks for this site.

Ann usuckek@yahoo.com

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

Can anyone relate? Starting when I was between age four and six, my family decided I was too fat (5 lbs over the Metropolitan Life Insurance company chart they had at the doctor's). They did all manner of things to get me to believe that I was too big, to get me to scrutinize and analyze how much I weighed. Well, it worked! For over 20 years now, I have done precisely that.... to the point I tried a 500-calorie-a-day diet at age 11 per my sister's request (she was a size 1, and had read somewhere that in order to survive a person only needed 300 calories per day!) I've tried purging (don't try this, folks-it not only doesn't work, but also causes intense guilt and serious physical problems-even death!). I've tried so-called "fat-burning" tea (ephedra) which made me lose 14, then gain 40! lbs right back in a matter of months. I've put my life on hold for the time when I would be "thin"-ironically, I never appreciated how I looked even when I was my thinnest adult weight (140 lbs). Am I the only one who has lived too long believing that I was worth nothing because I had not achieved an ideal weight? I've been reading as much as I can about having a healthy image of myself regardless of size. Does it take as long to get out of this snare as it did to get into it? I now no longer diet, I often eat without guilt or regret, and I have begun to enjoy a more active lifestyle (having no car will do that to you!). Yet I am still haunted by the sense that I am not "good enough" (whatever that means), that maybe I should be a little thinner. I often feel confident with myself, with my size-particularly when wearing comfortable, stylish clothes-but often still fight off bouts of self-loathing. How does one conquer this? Can I get back "home" to the place where I looked at myself at age 4 and had no idea what my mother meant when she said I should lose some weight? Most of my family has eased up on the thinness fetish. My other sister suffered similarly, and now is struggling to find out what is right for her- she weighs about 114 lbs, and is unsure if she likes being that thin, yet is afraid to gain weight. She never bothers me about my weight anymore, knowing now firsthand how painful it can be. As for the other sister, the size one? Although she has gained weight after her baby and not really lost it (she's probably a size 10-12), she still has the idea that gaining weight must be avoided at all costs, and seems completely impervious to what I have to say about the subject. She thinks she knows it all on the subject-I don't know why, since she is no longer the poster child for thinness. When will people understand? When will we understand ourselves? Can we come to a point where weight is a non-issue? where eating is a pleasure? where physical activity is enjoyed just for the love of motion (remember how you used to run everywhere as a child) not for some weight-loss goal? Can we get there? Do we have to turn the clock back on our thinking, forget the past and become like a child who is ignorant of the weight struggles, and just likes to cuddle up with a big, beloved relative? Maybe that's the only way. All I know is, until I can get that part of me back, I will keep looking for things to build me up, make me love who I am no matter what size, no matter how long it takes.

lee not available

I liked your pages, I hope to link to your site in the future at my web page: http://www.cyberjunkie.com/SpookyFox

ChrisTina PrisChris2@aol.com

I like your page because so many people in my family have suffered lack of self esteem and abuse because of their size. Although I am not fat, I have always felt the pressure to just lose a few pounds because I wasn't the "ideal". As a teacher, I see how this philosophy hurts so many young women firsthand.

Helen Pacheco Blazer-11@msn.com

As a fellow member of the Rocky Mt chapter of NAAFA I would like to thank Joe for the start up of our web site as well as his own fat freindly web site. Living large...it is not a big thing!

Patti Kelly PKRDH@AOL.com

Thank You for a great site!

Eva anon@nowhere.com

GREAT SITE!!!!!!!!!

Bonita Fussell nita1@gate.net

Great Site!!!

Collie dfh5150@aol.com

i loved your page! I am sitting here wounded over meeting this guy two weeks ago, not having any chemistry and gracefully making my exit. Now he just sent me a nasty email where he called me "a beast" and then went onto say that he was curious about "riding the fat lady." He's obviously wacko, but I am so hurt. It just never stops

jayne blanchard jblanchard@daedalusbooks.com

sonia sekrainer@yahoo.com

Hi Joe - I just wanted to let you know that I really enjoyed reading your web page. You are very well-informed and I agree that there is WAY too much societal emphasis on being ultra-thin. I have run the gamut from being 5'5" and 82 lbs to 150 lbs and I have (thankfully) realized that I would rather concentrate on being with my friends and pursuing my interests. I wish that there had been more fat acceptance resources when I was at either of these extremes; although 150 does not seem like much, everyone kept telling me I was fat and that was what led me to lose all the weight and end up in a hospital for two months. All the recent brouhaha over Ally McBeal's Calista Flockhart further emphasizes the morbid preoccupation with being thin in this society. I am sure that the famine victims in various third world countries would like to be dealing with a problem of a few extra pounds. Keep up the good work!

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

I`m a single Black female. I weigh 450lbs and very healthy. I love all info about fat acceptance.I`m new to the net so I`m trying to make new friends.

jurofa_98@yahoo.com

TO THE PERSON WHO OWES THIS BOOK!!! I was searching for some fat person's pics.....but got into this guestbook...NO WORRIES! Whatever your aim for this page, GOOD LUCK MATE!

Priscila pris_6@hotmail.com

thankyou

Jacqui daiatt@netscape.net

Fat people can be fun!interesting,and they have BRAINS. Give us a chance.we might become BEST of friends.We also have BIG hearts.Remember that's were love comes from!thank you!

Peppermint Patty kcasey@innova.net

your page is very infomative .... I weigh 275lb and am 5'6 I dont know if you consider this fat or not. I do. I agree with some of the things youve said in this page but not all.....I can remember my thiner years and I felt better then healthwise .....therefore it is a persons choice to diet in their own way.... if they choose ...if not ...im okay with that too! .....I love people! SMILE8-)

L.P. anon@nowhere.com

In the fat-acceptance movement your're years better then european countries livelong struggeling austrian fat woman is happy to meet you

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

Being fat isn't a crime and you know it! I think that is great and something for a person to admire. So baisicly I'm saying that I admire you. Not for being fat but for being proud to be yourself.

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

claire pyne clairepyne@yahoo.com

Hello everyone! it was brilliant to find this. I have been fat all my life and in the last few years i have come to accept and love it! I'm new to the net and would love to chat with anyone who is fat and happy!!!!

claire clairepyne@yahoo.com

salutations

nfs nfs@primus.com.au

Groovin' site! I've been fat (in varying degrees) for nearly my entire life, and it's only been in recent years that I've learned to feel good about myself and not let other folks get me down. I was a very shy, silent child who was unable to stand up for herself for a long time; consequently, I swallowed a lot of shit that was vomited out at me. After years of this peculiar type of "humans' inhumanity to humans", I considered the whole world my enemy but my greatest enemy turned out to be--myself. This was from internalizing, from listening to people insulting and laughing at me everytime they see me or just staring at me as if I sprung forth unexpectedly from a UFO. I took my righteous anger out on those who, it sometimes turned out, were just as worthy of it as unsympathetic outsiders. At 15, I was raped; when I got up enough courage to tell my family what happened to me that summer, I was not believed. One reason why my parents thought I was lying was because I was fat--who wants to lay a fat chick, for goodness' sake? REALITY CHECK: What's love (or lust, for that matter) have to do with being raped? It is a crime of violence--a crime committed by men who hate and fear all women, regardless of what she looks like, her race, age, religion, etc. Consequently, I gained a great deal of weight as a result of this act of violence and subsequent rejection from my folks. My top weight, about 5 years ago, was 333--now I'm down to around 240, but I wasn't trying to lose weight. This rapid weight loss was a result of diabetes, in which this is one of this disease's classic symptoms. I'm still fat (as I have always been), but websites like this one (as well as "talk" and medical therapy for depression) has given me something I never had before--self-confidence. It's still an uphill battle against a society that regards fat people as worthless, but those assholes are mostly silent now--apparently, they too see the change in me. For those who insist on trying to mortify me in public for being obese, I either tell them "Fuck you!" or just give them the old finger--shuts them up everytime. Fortunately, though, I feel an ever-decreasing need to fall down to these idiots' curb level. I still get depressed about it sometimes, but I don't take it out on myself very much anymore. Behind this thick, fleshy cocoon is a complex, multi-faceted human being with real feelings, aspirations, needs--just like all of God's children. Eventually, people in this country will finally get it through their thick heads that folks come in all shapes & sizes, and there is good in all of us.

HippyChic*k* fleshpots@yahoo.com

Love the site. I am finally being able to refer to myself as fat and not having to wince when I say it. I want my children to grow up in a world when everybody is free to be themselves without being ridiculed or put down for who they are.

anonymous pkutz88879@aol.com

as a bbw admirer I can't believe more people don't take part in such a fun ,fullfilling,great joy as being a part of bbws and their thoughts acomplishments, great beauty. and most of all ,most of the bbws I,ve met or conversed with are the most honest down to earth people of all.And darn sexy too!

slim tim slim@nwonline.net

I loved this page, and I think like you, but you have to write this in many languages, because people can´t understand important thinks. I´m glad, that persons like you are still alive. tahnks.

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

Great Page!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but you have to re-write this in others languages, like Spanish for example!!! thanks a lot!!

david, from argentina anon@nowhere.com

I am looking for services and products for large people. I need a seatbelt extender. Any ideas?

Claire Kilpatrick clairekilpatrick@mailcity.com

What do we think of literally diminishing one's sel, the social pressure to "lose weight" to be healthy and good person, and the economic injustice of our situation (job descrimination, opportunities denied, constantly being marketed to for useless and expensive "diet aides", etc? I find it interesting that women leaders in history were larger than today. But that is hidden. The manniquin of Eleanor Rosevelt in the museum of First Ladies in Washington shows her as a Size Ten, she was actually a size 14-18. Somehow, this presssure to make ourselves into something we are not is killing us, and society is consequently diminshed. Cosmetic surgury and other body mutilations teach us that who we are is not who we should be!. I walk three miles a day, five days a week. I eat a healthy whole foods diet, mostly vegetarian. I am a leader in my community and lead a useful life that helps and serves others. Yet, the fact that I am "fat" is the first thing people say in describing me, until they get to know me. People frown at me, and say rude things on purpose for me to hear if I eat something "fattening" in public. Rude comments are sometimes made by the "skinny runners" who pass me on my 6am hikes. I still think about being fat every day, and I have to say I wish some of the fat hanging on me would go away. But it hasn't, it won't, and despite society's demands to the contrary, the way I am right now is about the way it is for me, the best I can be. I am incredibly healthy, never sick, seldom absent, always the "perfect attendance kid" in school, healthy colorful complexion and look about ten years younger than I am. Yet, I am fat and that is used to say that I am unhealthy and that I have, no matter what I have accomplished, FAILED at life! I try REALLY HARD not to internalize this negative message. Interested in hearing from anyone who wants to talk about these issues.

Jan Marie Belle janmbelle@earthlink.net

informative and really persuasive

Grace grace_atig@hotmail.com

I can't tell you how much it thrills me to see magazines like yours.... For the first time in my life I feel sexy despite my size because I realize that "society's acceptance" doesn't exist. Keep up the good work.

Tammy aznewzee@aol.com

I stumbled across this page and I am so glad that I did!!!! I have struggled with the fact that I AM FAT all my life and 42 years is a long time to build up self-hatred. I sometimes wish that, just for one day, I could be 'normal' to see how the world would treat me. As you can see, I have no self-esteem. Maybe by signing this guestbook, someone will see that they are not in the 'battle' by themselves. Would love to hear from anyone who thinks they might help me develop a sincere appreciation for the body that God saw fit to give me. I WILL BE BACK!!!!!

'Deb' deb@freedom2000net.com

I am a size 16 please send me a help leaflet

Lisa lisa_mcutcheon@hsam.co.uk

ANy advice on being over weight? Please call me on 0171 203 3000 THankyou

Lisa Mccutcheon 

i and my husband and a few friends are trying to start a club for the big and beautiful and i want to have a news letter 1 time a month you have given me a lot of information thanks pat

pat trisha96@yahoo.com

very good !!!

C.D.M. 

I have been fat since grade school and I have been teased by friends family and people at my school. I try to build up my self esteem but then someone comes and makes a comment towards me, even when I am eating a semi-healthy meal. There are times that I wish I was never born or that I could just start over and maybe be skinny. I have dreams all the time that I wake up and my stomach is gone. Anyways, I want you to know that I started to cry when I saw how supportive people are on the website, and that some people still think that its okay to be big. Thanks

Timothy gab3739@sru.edu

As a young BBW, I am thrilled to know that I am not alone in my opinions. I am tired of feeling inhuman because I am fat, and constantly comparing myself to thin women who are portrayed as the 'ideal' by the media. I just wish that there were some organisations in the UK for fat people like those in the USA.

kate from england anon@nowhere.com

Great Page... I'm recently married to a wonderful thin guy who tells me daily how beautiful I am.. and after reading your pages and links, I'm finally beginning to believe it...Thank you for giving me the courage to accept myself the way I am! From a BBW of 5'10, 260 lbs...

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

hi everyone at rocky mtn. naafa. After reading this months newsletter & viewing all the convention photos; I feel very excited. I never thought I would want to go to the national convention.But now I really do! For the first time in my life; I amno longer ashamed of being fat. I'm not prouud of being fat but I am no longer ashamed. I just hope this feeling continues. I always have so much fun and feel so comfortable at our meetings! Sorry for all the typos & misspelled words; it's really late and I've been having a blonde day so I'm not going to correct this letter! Ha-Ha! Anyways, hope everyone had a wet & wild time at the pool parties! I'm so bummed that I missed them; but I was working on getting a friend out of jail. I'll be sending you some more fat fairies and other art soon. Well that's enough babbling(I should change my name to Brook the way I babble on sometimes!!!) So live, love & laugh always! Take time to smell the flowers & eat the icecream!( but not too fast or you'll get a brain freeze!) CIAO for now, Pattie P.

patriciaanonymous artbyppp@aol.com

I think this is wonderful , sometimes I feel like the only fat person in a skinny world. Thank You

Patricia Leitch dppat@gate.net

your page is the most wonderful thing I have ever read....its marvelous. I am so sick of this society, especially how my family centres on getting skinny.....I hate it. But my best friend is grrrrrrrrrrreat, and we try to get thru it together....thankx RIKI

Amy OD7 truckerbabe80@hotmail.com

Tonino Orsatti tonimar@libero.it

Fat is life

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

I would like to say hello to all BBW'S and if there is some woman who is alone and she wants to correspond with me, i would be happy of it. A big kiss from Italy and all this it's wonderful stuff.

Tonino maorsat@tin.it

Teleia Goddard tysco@pacbell.net

You have a really cool website here with a lot of interesting things to see. I can tell you have put a lot of time and effort into it. Check out my site @ http://angelfire.com/fl/JackCraig when you get some time. Thanks - Jack

Jack Craig jackcraig@hotmail.com

What you had to say was very interesting and I never thought of the word "fat" as being anything other than an insult, but you are correct in your thinking on this word, so next time I hear someone refer to me as the "fat girl", I won't take it so personal :-)

Kimberly KimLuvsTx@aol.com

Being a person of size myself I am so glad that I have found your web site along with that of many others. I am especially interested in any romance novels in which the heroine is a woman of size. I love to read historical romances, however it is frustrating to read where they are thin, petite and idealistic, especially given this present days obsession with weight. History has shown us that through the centuries women of size were considered beautiful and the ideal. Wouldn't it be wonderful to see this reflected in our historical romance novels? Thank you and the many others out there who have provided all of this wonderful information about fat acceptance on the net. Sincerely, Glenna

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

thanks so much for such a wealth of information! i am passing this on to all my fat friends, which are many!

shelka ffmjt@aol.com

I'm 4 foot 11 and weigh 310 pounds I'm proud of my size and weight, and I would like to be able to dream of large women. Is it possible to meet fat women who are proud of their globulations through this web sight? I do hate it when my fat wobbles when I run though. I think it's the only draw-back to being fat.

Ryan Levi Schroeder ryanschroeder13@hotmail

I just want to say Thank you. My friend sent this too me through URL in ICQ. I have enjoyed this sight and, have put it in my fav's. You have put a smile on my face and made me think about how I feel about myself.

Helen diamondg69@hotmail.com

Hi, I like your site. If you or anyone else knows of a good place to buy big gortex jackets, please drop me a line....I think the manufacturers think that us fat people just sit around watching TV all day. I like to hike and go play in the rain with my kid...tired of wearing clothes that don't fit right or aren't suitable for the rainforest climate that I live in. Help please...need something like 3x-4x-5x sizes.

Shutter shutterkat@hotmail.com

nice web page! Are there any ballroom dancers around BIG! i WILL BE SO GLAD WHEN WE DO NOT NEED THIS ANY MORE-MEANWHILE---

bruce thomas tpasadoble@aol.com

I am so sick of dieting and being hungry that I have decided "if it aint' broke don't fix it" and no matter what anyone else thinks, I am not broke, just fat. and I would rather eat a taco tonite than another bowl of healthy, no flavor pasta something or other, so thanks for this site

Mary Metmet43@aol.com

love your page!

Libby Elizabeth.Siebert@BBDO.com

Julie juicey7@aol.com

Thank you for your informational web sight. You are right if FAT was a four letter word it would be FATE

Shanoka anon@nowhere.com

Oooh, I liked reading the fat acceptance material here. Keep up the good work

Rachel evilNOSPAMtaurus@yahoo.com

Hello everybody. I am fat and unhappy...can anyone offer help or advice. Please call LONDON 0171 203 3000 and ask for Lisa MCcuttcheon. I would like to hear some good news ! Regaards LISA

lisa mccutcheon 

I am a lady off size and i'm real happy to find this page i don't have time today to look at everthing but I will.I'm real happy to see a page where i can go and not feel alone.I'm big,white,nonsmoker.and i love to laugh.I'm singal again.and its hard to find someone to just talk to with out feeling ashamed because you are big.Big people have feelings too........so thanks for the page and information.

sharon ann sharonann@aol.com

My name is Lucy and i am a researcher on the Trisha show. I am always looking for interesting people to talk to so if this sounds like you please e mail me or call on: 01603 752451. hope to hear from you soon. Lucy

Lucy lprice@angliatv.co.uk

Thanks for not saying that being fat is great, and not saying it's bad either. We'll be able to tell this society has evolved, when we are able to be just who we are.

Arata relmarata@ctos.com

Cool site!!! I'd like to say that the way people see body size today stinks!!! Look at the models of today...they're not just thin but skinny!!! Ladies & gentlemen I'm talking no chest or hips or rump!!! The current perfect state for a grown woman as per media is to have the body of a prepubescent boy!!! I'm sorry but I think (for women anyway) that to have a nice size chest, soft cuddle body, round hips, plump butt & strong thighs is to be a beautiful goddess. I think that women are spending time trying to develop the body of a boy-child in order to please a largely homosexual crowd of men (in fashion, entertainment, media, etc) that may be hiding their preferences. How many of you have read those stories where a woman is married for 10 yrs and then he leaves her for another man??? She always describes herself as having the 'perfect body'...that is skinny and manly. This has been going on for centuries...men afraid to reveal they are gay just prefer to be with a woman who looks as much a man as possible and they hope that will make him look 'normal' to the rest of the world. I truely believe this is the case and that it has spread past just being what some gay men did to the general population both gay & straight...I think that's a way for most men to deal with any subconscious thoughts on homosexuality they have. I think that if all of us plus-sized men & women just started love us & live that way, since we're the norm...the majority society would have to change...who'd buy the close..who'd buy the diet stuff??? Things would change really fast!!!

Melissa Grimm50@yahoo.com

Jeannette Welds Jeannette_Welds@excite.com

Please put me on your mailing list

Allison Trbl4342@aol.com

marijn wellink anon@nowhere.com

I really enjoy reading all of this information it really helps me cope with my obesity problem

Helen Carter Helen@Carter.com

A great site, my congratulations on it set up. A point I would like to get across is that it is not just women who have major problems with obesity, but men also. I myself am obese AND I'm happy, but I am under constant derision and pressure to change. I live in the UK where attitudes to overweight people are close to insulting. I have looked thru a lot of personal ad's and noticed that there are very little overweight people advertising. So I came to two conclusions. 1. All fat people have partners 2. No fat people advertise themselves for fear of insults. I have to say I'm one of the latter. Maybe one day attitudes will change and we will be accepted as persons and not a measurement. Wont be soon I fear. Anyway, Personal rant and rave over.

Ryan r.hinnem@virgin.net

malinda canterburry anon@nowhere.com

just like to say hello to all my bbw. i love them so much. thank you for having this home page.

charam charam1sir@aol.com

If you don't like the way I look don't look. lol.

michaela daisymp71@aol.com

Laura Nuyen Sunbeam6@aol.com

There is help out there if you really look for it.I have struggled with myweight all my life.I opted to have surgery to help loose the weight.The weight is gone but the problems are still there.Think twice before you take such a big step like surgery.If you like who you are and what you are than stay that way.Thin people have the same problems as the over weight people.

Laura Sunbeam6@aol.com

hi there, my name is pat. I am 24 years old. I am weight about 200 pounds. I am also kinda fat person. I am being since i was a small kid. And basically i like being fat because i have well portioned body that somepeople dreamed of. But the only thing problrm is clothes. it is kinda difficulft to find clothes that you like. For ex my waist size 60, lot of places, they do not have clothes fit for my size, and plus my stomach is hanging out. But i like heavy people. By the way i am a male

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

Hi there My name is pat. I am currently live in the texas. And right now i kinda gained weight also. I can understand it is kinda hard to find a clothes to fit for youre size, espesally when waist is size 48, like mine. I always like fat person, not because i am also overweight, because most of these people treats you with very much respect. Incase if you you wondering if i am male or female, i am a male. And i am single. so if you are female who is overweight,looking for relationship and you can send me a email to:loccuaya@hotmail.com PS: I am 24 years old and currently serving US Navy.

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

well I shall never ever feel lonely again Im not alone when im depressed, I shall visit here and gain my confidence again you have made me happy again you lovely people thanks

Patricia anon@nowhere.com

Thanks for a wonderful page! Keep up the good work! http://www.geocities.com/BourbonStreet/Quarter/9549

Linda franklinsalem@mindspring.com

Great page! Keep up the good work! http://www.geocities.com/BourbonStreet/Quarter/9549

Linda franklinsalem@mindspring.com

Nice site, a lot to think about. I've gained about 30 pounds over the last 6 years or so (admittedly, I needed most, but not all of them I was an anorexic little s**t), but have recently become obsessed about my body mass index. I'm very mildly overweight, but have a pretty low BMI, 21, just on the low side of healthy. And what is shown as healthy? Fashion models with BMI's of 16!!!!!!! Now THAT is sick! And it's fat people that are criticised for being unhealthy???

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

If Barbie were real, her neck would be twice as long as a normal person's, she would be 7 feet 6 inches tall, and her measurements would be 39-23-33. And that's a beaty ideal?????

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

Susan Cole sueto2000@yahoo.com

Coni McClellan StaplesofLife@Prodigy.Net

My name is ben cross and clinicly obease

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

Kaye lkb1965@aol.com

I too am A BBW, I have tried every diet under the sun and I have found that I enjoy being a BBW!!!!! I would like to hear from others whom are BBW's too. I became a BBW, due to cushing's syndrone.....

Rose Anne Grimm grimm@accn.org

It's net

Robert clemlord1@aol.com

I moved from the Hudson Valley in NY to Hollywood, Florida, in 1997, I have since been unhappy and unfilled, men are so judgemental, I have gone from a satisfying relationship in NY to nothing in FL. Men don't want to get to know a person that is large and lovely. Can you help? Do you have a personal ad section I could tap into? Let me know. I am so lonely.

Donna Brunow Donnabrunow@aol.com

Your web page is a big inspiration to us. Since we came here we have gained 200 lbs total together. Together weighing an average of 1200 lbs.

6 fat girls anon@nowhere.com

I LOVE BEING BIG ,I AM SO FED UP WITH THE MEDIA TELLING US WHAT WE SHOULD LOOK LIKE IF YOU ARE TRULY HAPPY BEING FAT [BIG] GO FOR IT , IT WOULD BE A BORING WORLD IF WE ALL LOOKED THE SAME .

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

This is a kick-ass site. I especially like the bomb you drop on people pushing diet crap. The resources are very helpful, and I tell everyone I know to hit this site.

Lisa Mendez dmendez@mciworld.com

HEY...great place...FINALLY!! I guess we chubbies need a place to rally!!! I only got fat when I got older...and anymore, I don't CARE...if noone can see beyond the fat...oooooh, well!! BTW, I'm married to a skinny guy, and have 2 very skinny kids...keep up the good work---anybody else that's chubby, can write me!!

Sue mommaho@webtv.net

Great site!

Audrey dolphin270@webtv.net

love your home page a makes me feel better that there are more people i the world just like me , thanks.

Alan Walsh alanwalsh_cii@mailcity.com

I am big bold and beautiful and I like myself what is more I am me and I will not let anyone take that away from me. I am one hell of a woman and thanks to people like you we can all stand tall and be counted!!!

Morgan gladrell@hotmail.com

It is great to see that people accept themselves the way they are. It is hard to be a big girl while all my friends are worrying about telling every guy they meet that they do tae-bo or while my other friend is starving herself, and when she does eat, barfing it up, all the while complaining how fat they are! Do they know what being fat is? Do they know what it is like when not even ONE guy likes them?? Well, just had to vent--my skinny friends couldn't possibly understand!!

annonymous tricka77@yahoo.com

I'm fat and I'm extremely Happy. I wouldn't change a thing about myself!

Jim Morrison jmorrison@pengroup.com

i found the page very interesting.

big jim allthegirlssay@ilovejim

thankyou

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Tis is a real good web site but look up this www..home.talkcity.com/kidskorner/wobbly_2460.index.html

Anthony Nacinovic wobbly@myself.com

Chuck Adamkiewicz anon@nowhere.com

Debra Avino davino@flink.com

I'm just happy to have found my people.

Chris "Fat Boy" Johnstone buc_aneer@email.msn.com

Very nice webpage. I am obese myself. I want to lose weight but naturally not taking some nasty pills. So keep up the goodwork.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Hi. I am collecting information for a future book on the Realities of Being an OBEASE Person. I am looking for obease (over 250lbs) males and females between the ages of 16-29 who would like to share their personal experiences. All information will be via email, anonomous, and confidential. No information will be reproduced or abused in anyway. Everything discussed will be for personal intrest only. I want to understand how it feels and what sort of chalenges one faces being an extreamly overweight young person. Please reply only if you are willing to be open and honest about your experiences. Remember this is a chance to share about the difficulties of obeasity with someone who is intrested and concerned, and also help raise awareness of the humanity of the severly overweight. Respectfully yours, Jan. p.s. please forward this message to anyone you know who might be intrested. Thanks so much. email me at: rainydaystories@yahoo.com

Jan rainydaystories@yahoo.com

Gloria Smith Sirwhimpy@hotmail.com

I'm overweight, 19 and never had much of a problem with my size...it's never gotten in the way of my love life, and never affected my quality of life at all. I am (one day far off in the future) hoping to write a humorous guide to life as a fat person, and would like other people to email me with their personal stories, suggestions and other possible sources of information. Thanks a lot. Cheers :)

Kiera MurielHeslop@freemail.com.au

GREETINGS FROM MAINE !! I AM 33, SINGLE, FEMALE, SUPERSIZE AND BEAUTIFUL! I AM SO IMPRESSED AND EXCITED ABOUT THIS WEB-SITE AND GUESTBOOK! I JUST GOT MY COMPUTER AND HAVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR ALL THE INFORMTATION AND SUPPORT I CAN FIND. I'VE JUST SPENT THE LAST HOUR READING THIS GUESTBOOK. IT IS EXHILERATING AND AFFIRMING. THANKS TO ALL WHO WROTE. IT HAS BEEN QUITE AN EXPERIENCE TO SAY THE LEAST. I HAVE BEEN "OVERWEIGHT" SINCE I WAS 3 YEARS OLD. I'VE BEEN ON EVERY DIET IMAGINABLE AND ALL I'VE SUCCEEDED IN DOING IS TO BECOME MORE OBESE, MORE DEPRESSED, BULEMIC AND HOPELESS(AT TIMES) I WAS AGORAPHOBIC FOR SEVERAL YEARS BECAUSE OF THE INTENSE SHAME I HAD FOR ME AND SOCIETY HAD FOR ME. I WAS NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO HANDLE THE INSULTS I WOULD RECEIVE EVERY TIME I LEFT MY HOUSE. I SLOWLY BEGAN TO FIGHT BACK AND DEFEND MYSELF. YES, IT WAS BABY-STEPS BUT AT LEAST I WAS MOVING. I'VE FOUND THAT NO MATTER HOW NICE I LOOK: HAIR ,MAKE-UP, CLOTHES, JEWELRY ETC. THAT I AM STILL CONSIDERED FAT FIRST AND FOREMOST BY MOST PEOPLE. I NOW HOLD MY HEAD UP HIGH, SMILE, AND ACT CONFIDENT EVEN THOUGH SOMETIMES I AM NOT. I AM A HUMAN BEING WHO DESERVES LOVE AND RESPECT AND IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT NUMBER THE SCALE SAYS!!!!! I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR THIS OPPORTUNITY TO FEEL VALIDATED AND TO FEEL STRENGTH IN NUMBERS!!!! TO BE HONEST, I STILL FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE WORD FAT. IT STILL FEELS DERROGITORY AND INSULTING. I KNOW THAT TO OWN IT WOULD PROBABLY TAKE SOME OF THE STING OUT OF IT, HOWEVER, I STILL PREFER TO REFER TO MYSELF AS A "LARGE" PERSON. IF ANYONE OUT THERE RELATES TO THIS PLEASE EMAIL ME AND LET'S TALK. THANK YOU FROM THE DEPTHS OF MY HEART.

TNH URLUVED@Hotmail.com

maggie parriotice22@aol.com

thank you for letting me know that i am not alone im going through alot right now ive just recently had to quit my job because i can no longer work because of my weight im really scared because im only 22 and it is just the being of my life i apllied for SSI but they seem to be taking ther time and i really need the help. and theinsurance im going to have the surg. and im d=scared thanks again you really touched my life i hope one day we can met and i can touch yours the same way you did mine please right me back i would love to keep in touch with you well i hope to talk to you soon maggie

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Hi can u please e-mail me about news

Kevin Gr8jabronie@aol.com

ainalglands anon@nowhere.com

Susan graphixgirl5@aol.com

Go to my site people! Thanks! http://survivor.isgreat.net All about CBS's Survivor!!!

Tammie DoubleXLTam@aol.com

So many things i want to say. My sister and I are both intelligent, beautiful, 350+ woman, who are at a point and really want to change the world regarding who we (fat people) are, and we have decided that akin to African Americans and "Black rage" we are starting to experience "Fat Rage" with all the ignorance that is sometimes overwhelming. I am tired of men, who notice my beauty, but can't deal with me not being a rail, in turn must ridicule me to erase the fact that they found me (a fat woman) attractive in the first place. Well, I am rambling and could forever. Are there any groups in Seattle, WA. NAAFA was not for either of us, no activism or changes, just making people comfortable to swim around each other. We are looking for more than that.

Adrienne Zouad Alzlem@aol.com

Lula Lulabell38@aol.com

Hey Great Site.. and DUH.. I am fat..and not happy with it cuz that is not how the world is to be.. cuz all the guys like the skinny girls and all what the fat girls get but anyway.... have fun

Kandi Ann Smoodeisz kandi_cane23@hotmail.com

I really love this site. I'm thinking of starting a local fat person's club in my area.Please write me and let me know if this is a good idea. I don't have a computer of my own, so I will have to use the USPS.Write to Terry Bell 207 East Bethany #17 North Little Rock, AR 72117. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Terry Bell anon@nowhere.com

Excellent!!! I had no idea that there were so many others like me,

Sharyn dandsandrews@dingoblue.net.au

i am so fat. please help me deal with accepting my weight.

Paige Dollinger paiger@mindspring.com

please send me some mail that u send out to other people. please.

dennis kozian dkozy97@aol.com

I enjoyed it

Lynda Fuegmann fuegie@midtel.net

I am a new heavy widow. I was married 33 wonderful yrs. He loved my overweight and treated me like a queen. I live in upstate Neew York any one live around me that wants to e-mail I have been alone now 9 months and hate it . I love this site . If you have a website for fat personals please let me know.I am 57 and weigh 200lbs. well perportioned I love country music and am a homebody very honest.I don't like phonies.

Lynda Fuegmann fuegie@midtel.net.

I really like your websites. Fat People rule!!!!!

Cindy cad1960c@aol.com

F-A-T is NOT a four letter word. I'm FAT and I'm PROUD. Don't be ashamed of being FAT.

Clasmyrddn clasmyrddn@aol.com

I am a 32 y.o.BBW who has struggled since childhood with body image and fat acceptance.I admire what you're doing here.Keep up the great work,and thank you.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Hi I am 50 lb. overweighed. Although, I am in the process of losing weight, I support your cause. I, like you, believe that fat people can be healthy and fit. I have a web site "Study of Obese Body" - http://www.geocities.com/dekolak. I have a new idea as well. I would like to organize or help to organize road races for overweighed people.

Bob dekolak@yahoo.com

Matt surfer797@aol.com

First, thanks for a wonderful, informative website. As I was browsing in the Google search engine, I ran across someone who had signed this page,and seemed to be looking for romance novels with plus-size heroines. I write just such novels, and you can find the information by going to my website at: http://www.patballard.com Thanks, Pat

Pat Ballard jpballard@mindspring.com

I'm looking for chat rooms for heavy woman and men

Cookie cookie562088314@gateway.net

All my life I've fought fat and I'm ready to give up the batle. Can you help me?

maria clasmyrddn@aol.com

BRETT JAHN ELVISnCONCERT@AOL.COM

I PERSONALLY find this page to be a GREAT help to people like me. I weigh 450lb and find it difficult to move about. This page is a great source of information. Thank you. Thank you very much.

Robert D. boby77@nowhere.com

i am a fat person, although i am losing weight for health reasons. i love fat women and date them exclusively. thanks to sites like this, many women can change thier attitudes about thier bodies. im glad to help in the fight to end the discrimination of fat people.

michael e. weaver meweaver@advancenet.net

Holly Wilson hmw1977@yahoo.com

I am 5'6" and I weigh almost 500 pounds, I am looking for some friends out there who can identify with the rigors of life in this condition. I am excited to find this site and I hope to hear from a lot of you! E mail me and we'll talk.Bye til then!

Holly Wilson hmw1977@yahoo.com

Im fatter than a Thanksgiving Turkey, and im damn proud of it!

Frank coachdirt@aol.com

jfitzfgerald@charter.net

Hello all my chubby friends. I am a 22 year old female who has remained over 200 for about 6 years now. I am not 100 percent happy with my body and doubt i ever will be. I would like to be in the range of a size 12/14, but my biggest concern is to firm up. If you only saw how flabby I am! well, i just wanted to thank everyone for all your imput. This is a site that I am suggesting my younger sister read. She is a large but very beautiful girl She hasn't realized how little appearances count, but I know she will someday. please feel free to write me anytime. I am from Massachusetts, if anyone wondered. PS Beauty does not only come in a size 6

melissa ladyxtacie@aol.com

Just wanted to write a quick thing about a wieght loss. In high school I wieghed 265. I never dated anyone in my high school. i actually paid someone to go to my Senior Prom with me. Anyway, my point is I lose 50 pounds and I look a lot better than before. Now, when I see guys who never paid attention to me before but now are very intrested in me I say "if you didn't like me then... you can never like me now!" I would much rather find a love when you are "fat" then when you are thin. At least now, i know my boyfriend loved me for me, not for my body.

Melissa LadyXtacie@aol.com

please help i am fat.......i mean FAT, i have a serious problem with my weight i was wondering if you have got any advice?

louise wallington louise_wallington@hotmail.com

Write me...

mary marks negrma@students.fccj.org

fat people rock but skinny ppl r cool to were all the same

joeyb tully_qb@hotmail.com

please e-mail me as i am getting bullied at school about my weight.

Anthony Droom brokenmonkey66@hotmail.com

Yep, I'm fat, and loving it!

annonymous clasmyrddn@earthlink.com

FAT IS GREAT

C C

of course being fat is a ...thing. not good, or bad. just a thing, unless it causes health problems, of course. but being super skinny can cause health problems, too. well, nice website! :oP

step n l 

All my life I've been a fat person and was ready to die from the shame. your words gave me the inspration I needed to change my life around so thank you from the bottom of my heart.

mary clasmyrddn@aol.com

Sandi idnas96@aol.com

I weight 175 pounds and im only 10!

David Conrad anon@nowhere.com

I nead Help!!

Dean Conrad ddcchef

I found this sight when looking for diet advice and I'm glad I did. Just like my loving boyfriend tells me, i'm beautiful as I am, ok I might not be a size eight but I'm alive and if theres nothing more important to worry about than not having a flat stomach then lifes not that bad really is it. STAY BEAUTIFUL XXXX

rebecca nursebec40@hotmail.com

I'm fat - so what? My man loves me just the way I am.

fat woman clasmyrddn@aol.com

I am a 22 year old male who is over whight

Rob O whiplash37@hotmail.com

I am Sandra and I love fat peole I am 256. If there some one that over 250 that love fat people you can E-mail me. sandra4359@hotmail.com

Sandra Gail Himna sandra4359@hotmail.com

I HAVE BEEN EXTEREMLY OBESE SINCE AGE 9 AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO ACCEPT MYSELF AS BEAUTIFUL. I WAS A BEAUTIFUL CHILD UNTIL AGE 8, AND THAT IS WHEN I BEGAN GAINING WEIGHT. WHEN I SAY BEAUTIFUL, I MEAN BEAUTIFUL IN PHYSICAL BEAUTY, AS OUR SOCIETY EXPECTS EVERYONE TO BE IF WE ARE TO BE ACCEPTED AND NOT BE THE CENTER OF THE JOKE. I LEARNED AT A VERY EARLY AGE TO CRACK JOKES ABOUT MY FAT BEFORE THE KIDS AT SCHOOL DID....AND I WAS ACCEPTED AND FAIRLY POPULAR BECAUSE I WAS THE CLASS CLOWN. ON THE OUTSIDE I WAS THE LIFE OF THE PARTY, BUT ON THE INSIDE I WAS SO SAD AND UNHAPPY. WE CANNOT CHANGE THE WORLD'S OPINION OF WHAT IS ACCEPTABLE. IN LOOKING AT OLD MOVIES I CANNOT BELIEVE HOW MUCH HEAVIER ACTRESSES WERE THEN...PEOPLE HAVE LOST THEIR MINDS OVER BEING SKINNY.. I WAS IN THE GROCERY STORE AND A LITTLE CHILD OF 2 OR 3 MADE A COMMENT TO HER DADDY, "SHE'S FAT!" HER DADDY APPOLOGIZED AND FORCED HER TO APOLOGIZE TO ME, BUT HE IS THE ONE THAT TAUGHT HER WHAT IS ACCEPTABLE. SHE SURELY HAS HEARD HER PARENTS COMMENTS ABOUT FAT PEOPLE. I TOLD HER, "I KNOW HONEY, THAT'S OK, I'M USE TO IT." SORRY, DIDN'T MEAN TO TAKE UP SO MUCH SPACE, BUT I THINK IT IS GREAT YOU LOVE YOURSELF...BUT I HATE MY APPEARANCE, AND SOMETIMES MYSELF. GOOD LUCK, KEEP UP THE WORK I LIKE TO KNOW OTHER PEOPLE ARE DEALING WITH THE FAT ISSUES.

DEBBIE ROGERS DSROGERS4U@AOL.COM

You know what? This site is just absolutely fabulous. I'm proud to sign this guestbook. Dammit, I may be fat...but so what? I'm also: pretty, smart, intelligent, witty, caring, and completely awesome! That's right everyone...I, a voluptuous woman, have self esteem...and there's no reason why I shouldn't. There are more important things to life than worrying about weight and what other people think of you, so have the time of your life, you're the only one living it! (My theory: Waif like women and buff studly have a conspiracy going against those who were blessed with beauty on a larger scale...there are jealous because we may die earlier, but at least we could eat!) Peace, love, and Hot Fudge Sundaes! Sarah

Sarah bijoux0033@aol.com

Yes i'm fat and proud of it! My man loves my dimpled rolls of cheeky fat! All the better to grab hold off and all the more 2 love! LOL!!!

annonymous clasmyrddn@aol.com

HI I WOULD LIKE GUYS TO KNOW THAT IF YOUR SKINNY ITS AK TO LOVE A BIG GIRL. I AM SICK OF BEING TREATED LIKE A FRIEND. SO IF YUO LIKE THEM BIG THEN EMAIL ME

annonymous BUTERFLI2001@WEBTV.NET

I Am not Alone!

David Conrad ddcchefAOL

I am so fat

angie cote anon@nowhere.com

Phew,what a relief to hear echos of my own conclusions on the fat conundrum.I hardly know where to begin,I was beginning to think I was deluding myself as to my utter inability to re-write my body weight.Why is it that people of all weights are so reluctant to accept that diets do not work

binty anon@nowhere.com

Phew what a relief to see a lot of my own conclusions on the fat conundrum in print.I was beginning to wonder if I wasn't just deluding myself as to my utter inability to re -write my own weight.It's like being a space alien, what you say has no effect on how fat is addressed in any way.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

please could you post me the information as i have no pc of my own an no email address. 91, Gillway Lane, Gillway. Tamworth. Staffordshire.B79 8PH.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I enjoyed browsing through your site. It has been very informative. Thanks

Gwen geegade@aol.com

i am glad there seem to be more large size sites

annonymous jim1898brady@hotmail.com

I'm proud to be fat i dont give a sh*t about what anyone has to say otherwise . :)

kelly applecheeks71784@aol.com

Great site! I feel I can be myself here. Why be ashamed of my body! I'm also a human being darn it! Thanks thanks!

Tonja twatkins@intrado.com

This is great.......finally a place where I feel comfortable. Thank YOU

Annamarie Nowak Angel71038@aol.com

Thank you very much for this website. education is needed in the field of fat acceptance. after reading Fat! so? about a year ago, fat actisvism has changed my life, so that i don't worry about what other people think. and now i am able to actually LIVE it. thank you for your invaluble efforts, and keep up the good work.

Stephanie Zonk_Zelda@hotmail.com

I'd like to thank you very much for this web page. I'm a fat Portuguese girl and I'm very joked about my wheight. I fell very sad and I'd like to congratulate you about this place where I can feel safe.

Raquel Joana idont@haveany.pt

I'm looking for friends in the UK. I am 230lbs, and due to an illness have become fat. But in all honesty i like it. Respond please to the above email address. Thanks.

Andrew Barham barham_andrew@hotmail.com

Hello i am 230lbs. Due to an illness i became overweight recently and in all honesty enjoy being so! Respond to the above adderess please.

Andy Barham barham_andrew@hotmail.com

Hi , This is a great site. I am fat, and feel right at home here. When I got married in 1971 I weighed 127 lbs. Four children and dozens of diets later I am about 250 (and alone). After all, men never get pregnant.... I am NOT the same person I was 30 years ago. In fact, I am wiser, more spiritual, more loving, A LOT more patient, and definitly have a lot more to offer in any relationship, be it casual, friendship, or serious. NO MORE DIETS!!!

mel mel_larivi@yahoo.com

thanks for the boost, you got me feeling better. Anyone know where I can get larger sized long leg control briefs and front clasp bra? I need support! Not looking for fru fru stuff, just industrial undies! Seriously!

Kathy Chausse McBride AKA naturenut naturenut9@att.net

Im sorry to bother everyone, but I am so upset with being called fatty chunkins and tubby lardo. I cant help being fat and I hate it, my closee friend tells me that its because I eat a bargain bucket everyday. Does any one understand what I am saying - or am I the only fat person who eats properly and still gets abuse. Please tell me its not my fault.

Andrew Greenwood silverblade_uk@hotmail.com

Makes me hungry...got any ding dongs?

Gale Mandak www.fatbitch.com

feri feri@omen.ru

This is a wonderful thing. I wish more information like this was available.

Luscious Lusciousfemme@aol.com

This is such a fabuolous page! I want to say thank you for all of the support and for making me feel like I am not alone. Fat may be the last safe prejudice, but with people like you, we can overcome.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Glad to see some positives being said about us. I've been fat as long as I can remember and until recently I've learned to accept "all" of who I am and dismiss the negative stereotypes that kept me down on myself. Thanks!!

Deloris deloris987@aol.com

im fat and im ok with it

alejandro garza ely_garzadem@hotmail.com

what a wonderful resource! thank you thank you thank you! i have been a champion fat woman teacher for many years during which i felt it incumbent upon myself to dress very well and carry myself with pride for my students to see exactly what a fat woman could be! i recirculate fat-acceptance mags and info to my students and other teachers--it is good to see a website that i can now use too!

maxene slix92@aol.com

Good resource. Thanks for being there. Dean Hughson http://www.fatfiftyandflying.homestead.com

Dean Hughson dean@primenet.com

LOVE THIS SITE...BBW ARE DIVAS

Sherrie briguysmom@aol.com

Yeah, like any one could hurt me any more with seeing this information. Thank you for the website.

Karen L. Bynum k5m5b5@aol.com

One time on the Jerry Springer show, one of the guests was a 700-pound man named David. I heard his story, and if it were possible, I would have pulled him through my TV set, lay on my back, and stretched him full-length on top of me. I would have wrapped my arms and legs around him and would have given him a great slow long hug, and I would have told him that I have a great huge soft spot for such wonderfully huge people among us. If I had the money, I'd open up a shop where the very biggest could come and receive a huge hug and loving total body massage to help them release tension and to have them know that they are loved.

Mark Blier mblier@bellsouth.net

I Love It!

Kris Krisocd@aol.com

thank you for the information. im doing a speech in class on how i love being a fat. also fat is a four letter word. but its spelled PHAT, which means you look damn good. At leats thats what the kids these days are saying. Take care and be blessed.

annonymous thickalishous@aol.com

Forget Fat Acceptance. Fat Reality is here. 60% of Americans are fat, that makes us a majority. Whether you're slightly overweight or obese, you are not alone, Join the Crowd, come to http://www.fatcities.com. Fatcities.com, where everybody's fat or a friend.

Mortushy mortushy@yahoo.com

stand tall and be proud!!!!!!!!!

tonya fernandez tj7986@hotmail.com

This is the best page on the entire Internet.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

hi peeps, my name's teresa, i'm going my dissertation on the social rejection of fat bodies - i am completely against it. im not big, and im not pretending i understand what if feels like to go through what fat people do. i think its frightening that there is so much ignorance. its hard to change social attitudes, but that doesnt mean that fat people shouldnt bother. every effort counts, just as every person counts!

teresa 

LARGES PEOPEL ARE BEAUTIFUL. HOW BIGGER THEY ARE WHO MORE BEAUTIFUL I LIKE THIS LIFE

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

hi i like your website, though i think it needs livening up a bit by adding photos!

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I have been fat all my life and enjoy it.

Fatty Johnson fatty@fatland.com

¿Watz poppin BigEz across da world? I be Gina Ramos,14, from NeW JeRzEe!! I neva thought there was actually another page out there, other than mine www.geocities.com/ricangreekanpig, dat tells people dat it is aight to be FAT! I am feelin da page but I hope ya can come check mines out and sign da G-spot! I'm outt aight holla back bigEz ... un amor...

GiNa a.k.a PiGg iRiCaNGrEeKaNi@aol.com

hey wat up..? i like the site my name is stacy ramos,13,from nj and itz hott that therez another fat site{ other than mine} , www.geocities.com/ricangreekanpig... check it out my sis is gina .... just to let u know hope u sign the guest book 1 luv BigEz.....

StAcY A.K.A. T.C Kittysr316@aol.com

My cousin sent me this page because we are heavy ourselves and very proud of it. Most of our lives we were teased on the situation but learned to accept ourselves for who we are. We made a web-page telling our stories about our childhood and the different things we were put through. It is aimed for making large & heavier people to feel special about themselves and that there are people just like them out there. The media makes it out to be like everyone has to weigh the same and be a certain weight to "fit in" or be beautiful. Even though it took much time i found that i am happy about the way i am and i want to help others start to feel that way too!

Jessica - A.K.A Fatica (15 yrs old) puppies1211@hotmail.com

Hi How refreshing! I live in the UK and have been brought up surrounded by being called "FATSO", which did bother me. I love my curvy body now and like being different. I refuse to conform with what I am expected to be instead of how the good lord made me. X

Nina ninasuzannedennis@hotmail.com

wow you guys are right but im still fat.

mariyam anon@nowhere.com

I think that your website is very interesting and that making people realise that the word fat is not an effensive word

emma anon@nowhere.com

huhuuyhghg

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I am excited

ali alialobaidi@hotmail.com

It is delightful to see a site which offers us both support and acceptance.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I just heard that the Norwegian government is going to make fisherman be a certain size before they can get their license, this is professionals.

michael jimhill1867@aol.com

i would just like to say thanx for ur site!! I'm currently doing a major work for Society & Culture and investigating Hollywood's portrayl of fat ppl..eg in the Nutty Professor and Shallow Hal. thanx for the great linx! If u can help me with any opinions or feedback...pls email me! Thanku!

Maya M myass_84@hotmail.com

What a great site!!!

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

annonymous jose.madrugo@porto-de-lisboa.pt

I love big women. Please send me photos of big women. Thanks.

annonymous jose.madrugo@porto-de-lisboa.pt

i loved your web page please continue

tina lasley tinakmalasley@aol.com

KIM KDK1026@attbi.com

Diana Forsea anon@nowhere.com

Interesting site.

Diana Forsea Diannaforsea@aol.com

~~gina 4 life~~ cybergirl_2b1@hotmail.com

I'm not fat, but i wish i was, so i could lick my fat... it tastes good off my fat b/f... he tastes like chicken... mmmm mmmm mmmmm

Gina~~4~~Life! cybergirl_2b1@hotmail.com

I am pleased to meet all of you fellow big people. I've been yo-yo-ing from fat to trim all my life never winning the battle. Anything more than 900 calories a day even with extreme heavy exercise has always put fat on me. My pet peeve is doctors who do not listen when you tell them something like this. At the most they may take some blood tests and you will never find out the results of the tests. And Meridia?!! What a joke!!!! I'm 5'1" tall and 288 lbs. and insulin put 70 lbs of it on me while I desparately dieted and exercised and asked my doctor what was causing the weight gain. Of course he told me nothing until the weight was already gained, then he laughed and said, "I told you, it's the insulin." I think we should all get together and sit on doctors like him until they beg for forgiveness. But that's just a fantasy of mine. I find I am loved, fat or thin, in fact, when fat, you know who really loves you, and isn't just looking for someone exceptionally thin to decorate themselves with. Clothing is a problem is a problem though, have you noticed? Who said jeans should not come in any size larger than a 28w? Anyway, I love all of you. Be happy, and be proud.

Kathleen P anon@nowhere.com

annonymous tntstanifer@aol.com

the fat the better more love for that cusion

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I just absolutly loved your fat peoples site it just remines me of my self and of how much i look like a boulder Could you give the emails of the guys that likes fat girls thanks

Jasmine anon@nowhere.com

I'm just giong to say it doesn't matter if your fat or not if your trying to inpress someone and they don't like you only because your fat. Then I would just let go because you know they are the fool not you. Always be yourself and don't let people get to you because your oyu and nobody can change that. I get teased all the time that I'm not pretty enough for a guy to like my but I don't let people put me down I take it and try not to let it bother me because I know I have a good heart and not them.

Brittany/13 yrs old anon@nowhere.com

I really enjoyed your site. GREAT JOB. I have a community at: www.overwhosweight@communities.msn.com I have just started a new support group called"OVER WHO'S WEIGHT?"

Tyona Wesley-Stitt CokoRose@hotmail.msn.com

i love the way i look

carri carri_b79@hotmail.com

Thanks for the info...great site.

Steve O Steve04660@yahoo

hi i think it is great that you guys are going this for people like us. i'm not really fat but i'm thick. but i would still like to loss this fat. but by me reading you all letters made me feel alot better about myself

tiffany anon@nowhere.com

Hello and thank you for having a place that does not dwell on size, yes I am a fat person and even after undergoing gastric by pass surgery in 1991, where I did loose weight, however it did not stay off...and doctors also fail to truely inform the person undergoing this drastic surgery the linger 'side effects' that you will live with for the rest of your life, had someone bothered to inform me of the residual health side effects, I for one would not have had the surgery done. Thank you so much for what you are doing and for the plug you give to all of us bbw's out there...

PJN pupypalace@yahoo.com

I'm not fat. I'm a slim FA (fat admirer). I'm a 19 y/o male living in Birmingham, England. If you live in Birmingham too and want a date just ask. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Steve T. Oak Jacqueline.Oak@btopenworld.com

Great site...I am now in my forties and have always worried about "getting fat"..in two years I gone from 150 lbs to 210, with that 60 lbs going to belly. In a few months I have a 20th school reunion, which I am nervous of attending..I almost sent my regrets, but I want to not be ashamed of my big gut...anyone have advice on how to deal with snide remarks...rude comments?

Jack jack1956@mail.com

wonderful and exciting

arman guiam guiam@cs.com

cool site.

timmyp http://www.microxl.com/timmyp/timspage.htm

I am thin, i have always been thin, so has all of my family. However few years ago my Mother was told she had canser. The drugs she was given helped stop the canser but caused her to nearly dubble her weight. She found it difficult to relate to me and became depressed. She now visits this site and is much brighter and happier. Thank you for helping my Mum.

annonymous 

anyone want some fat brian love, go to club CC in L.A., I like to call it chubby chasers, see you there ladies!!!

Brian comedy357@email.com

hey yall im not fat but i think fat people are fun!!! just like big momma said. yeah!!!! im not lieing, im seriously not fat. so whoever reads this, don't think im in fat person denile. IM NOT!!!!! dude im like 13 anyway!!!!

buffalo~babe*** buffalo@sillygoose.com

Hi, I've just been spending a few hours floating around the web and found you, then thought I would say hi, as you've stirred a few memories the love of my life refused to even consider going out with me (desite being my best friend) because I am fat. That hurt, and we are no longer on talking terms. It felt very good to read some of the Size Acceptance things on this site. Very well done! Thanks.

Vandermint vandermint@rediffmail.com

I am a morbidly obese woman, who just graduated with a Master's degree from the University of Oklahoma. Instead of being happy, I am extremely depressed and suicidal. I can't even imagine looking for a job. I am so overweight, that I know employers will just laugh at me. I hate my body! I am fighting back tears as I type this. Is there any help out there?!

Melissa Moore mmoore@ou.edu

Hi! I'm a Japanese fat man. It can not already be satisfied in a Japanese. Please a kind person who has the kindness to get on to my worry mails.

taku-yanagisawa maton@home.jcom.ne.jp

i love this geust book and if there are any bbws that see my email drop my a message but you gotta be big and curvy or i wont bother with ya, ok.

just ask and ill tell you buttnaked69_69@yahoo.com

hi!I think this is really a great website. I'm not fat but my sisters are and I think this is a great revelation for people. keep up the good work.

Ariella soccerista@yahoo.com

Hi. I'm a communications student in the Philippines and my research paper is how media helps convey fat acceptance to people. Maybe you can help me. My sisters are fat and I guess I just want them to be happier and so that the society would accept them. Thank you

Larissa Barzaga barzaga.larissa@lycos.com

I found the site to be extremly informational. I am acollege student doing a research paper about the prejudices of fat people. I to am overweight and i struggle deeply with it everyday and every waking hour of my life. I have not yet come to terms with it and i tear myself apart mentally all the time. In reading the literature available on the web i am interested in whether or not these outreach programs of support really do help! Thank you for the informative and pleasurable site. Knowledge is power and you seem to know your stuff. Thanks. Jennifer Brockel, MO

Jennifer Brockel jennifer_puryear@hotmail.com

Very informative. i like that! thanks

Jennifer jennifer_puryear@hotmail.com

Iam form Germany and Iam mega Fat! Fat are great

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Hi. I am a BBW and I am finally coming to accept who I am. Society can no longer tell me that "fat" means "ugly". Because I know that isn't true. I am soooo grateful for sites like this one.

Sara sweetheart74@email.com

Hey! I appreciate that you are letting people know that "fat" is not somehow deficient and fat people are cool too! :) http://www.geocities.com/preciousjeni.html Thanx!

Jennis jgirl00@mindspring.com

Leigh McVey grarts@hotmail.com

thanks, im researching stuff for school, this site was good

jess angelgirl_6o6@yahoo

You go!!! Im fat too:)

Jennifer anon@nowhere.com

This is a great website. I'm doing some early background research for an international photographic campaign that the United Colors of Benetton will be doing about food and our relation to it. I'm trying to contact a diverse group of people of all different shapes and sizes who feel passionately about the subject. The photos themselves will be non-judgemental and diverse group of single and group portraits. I'd love anyone who might be interested in the photographic portraits to contact me by e-mail. I look forward to hearing from some of you. Thanks Amy

Amy Flanagan flanamy@aol.com

keep going! fat people rock!!!!!!!!!! love thin girl

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Very informative website. I see your list of fat friendly doctors and that you are looking for more. I sure would like to see more.

Diane shekieb@netscape.net

I am fat and I love it and I am proud of it.

Kelly KellyKel15@aol.com

i love fat people

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Hi im anthony i know this site will give some tips to be a fat person actually im a tin person may friend told that im tin(but somebody), so pls anyone can give me some tips..... well i should be going now ,thank u very much Help?

anthony thonsqui@hotmail.com

Fellow Fatties... We are BIG! We are BOLD! We ARE! Pudges "Where the calories don't count, because we don't count calories" www.pudges.com

Pudges anon@nowhere.com

I think fat people are cool. I like Fat chicks. i think more girls sholud become fat because they look more attractive. They shold not be emmbarresed about their weight.

people 

I am so FAT. I feel so bad and I go extremes to be acepted.I have sex with many men that I have no interest in just to make myself feel wanted. i cry about it almostevery night. i just need someone to talk to

Tina Davis Christina.Davis@swedish.org

im a fat knacker

karim chess anon@nowhere.com

I was always thin, until I put on the infamous "freshman 15" in college. I put on the 15 by Thanksgiving and by the end of my first year I had the "freshman 50". I put on a substantial beer belly. When I came home I got nothing but abuse and ridicule for getting so fat. I was at first humiliated but then dicided that I liked being fat and I liked to eat and cook. So from then on a flaunted my belly all summer long: mowing lawns shirtless, etc.. Now so many years latter, hardly anyone remembers me as thin! I got a big complement recently...I have been asked to play Santa Claus, for the first time in my life for my sister's kids! :)

Jiggle_gut jiggle_gut@yahoo.com

Yeah!! I just gained 60 pounds and love it. You get so much more attention for being fat. My wife loves the belly to. If you are not fat yet. Do it

Jason anon@nowhere.com

I LIVE IN AUSTRALIA,AND WOULD LIKE TO (JOIN) OR START UP A SUPPORT GROUP HERE,IF ANYONE KNOWS OF ONE, OR HOW TO START ONE,PLEASE E-MAIL ME. I AM DYING TO TALK TO SOME LOVELY FAT PEOPLE LIKE MYSELF, IM AM 200kg. I AM NEW TO THE I.NET, SO I WILL TRY MY BEST TO BE A BIG BUDDY TO ANYONE WHO E-MAILS ME, I HOPE I HEAR FROM SOMEONE SOON.

GINA anon@nowhere.com

I love this site. It's high time that the stigma of being fat be totally erased from the face of the earth. We come in different sizes and that's the way God planned it.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

 
Hey, nice one. I've just come off a pro-anorexia website (that i stumbled on after following a link from anoher site) and was frankly in shock, it's nice to come across real women with real bodies after that! Nice one!

Chubster

We are a resource site with plus size directories connecting plus size singles in the us and worldwide

Don Hobbs don@loveonnet.com

I am a 40 year old fat woman anglo/irish living in UK. British people still think it's fine to degrade and demean people of size. The point that most people miss is big is not beautiful, neither is small! It is us as indivduals that have beauty and until people get real about the unimportance of the physical manifestation of a person we will never progress from the self obsessed, bigotted, one dimensional arsholes which the majority of society tends to be! Love to my fellow people TB

Teresa Barratt teresa.barratt@btopenworld.com

chicken anon@nowhere.com

hi fat people rock

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

some kids are makeing a joke of this weeb site and i am ofenda by there re marks

matt matt@hottmail.com

I am so happy to have found this site! I would be ridiculed elsewhere for saying this, but I have 2 very skinny daughters, ages 8 and 10. I have made it my new year's resolution to fatten them up, and yes, I want them to become plesantly chubby. I know that I am not the only mom who feels like this, and I would love to hear from anyone that is fattening or has fattened their kids. I need support, and tips, thanks.

Mary marysmith@canada.com

thanx for making me feel accepted for one time in my short 16 year life...thanx

Trisha question_nothing@hotmail.com

Mischelle Leigh Brooke Dymock 16 McGill St Kewdale, Perth Western Australia, 6105 mysticblue76@hotmail.com mysticblue@yahoo.com.au +61(08) 9362 3040 I am excessively overweight, by just over 200 pounds. But I'm proud of who I am, and wouldn't change it for the world. I'm fat and I'm proud of it!! Please contact me on the above details. Thankyou.

Mischelle Leigh Brooke Dymock mysticblue@yahoo.com.au

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Tabounique tabouniq@earthlink.net

Custom lingerie and costumes in sizes up to 14+. Catering to everyone, fast and friendly. Retro styles, vintage tailoring, exquisite lace embellishments. Items include, sheer nylon, tricot, satins and more. Boutique items not sold in retail stores....Will be adding sizes 15 - 18 soon.

www.Tabounique.com tabouniq@earthlink.net


I'm a single and super-size woman in Oregons'Mid-Willamette Valley,I'd like to meet men who like fat women.

Deanna deannathiele@msn.com

Your website looks great...I am a nutrition student interested in fat acceptance. You might want to link to my Open Diary, which deals with my own research on the subject of fat and health, as well as discrimination and prejudice against fat people. http://www.freeopendiary.com/entrylist.asp?authorcode=A744390

Peggy Nature ouisch@innocent.com

I am Fat and I stand proud!

Tom PoulosT@northsalem.k12.ny.us

I am Fat and I stand proud!

Tom tompoulos@hotmail.com

I would appreciate it if some larger people were to email me with information about how to deal with being "large" Regards Scott

Scott Liley 0201903@rgu.ac.uk

Please send more info

Amy awalerstein@centralsuffolkhospital.org

Hi it's nice to know there's other people who know how I feel. I myself am a big girl at 275 lbs. ( I'm only 5'3") and I'm tired of being rejected by men because I'm a BBW. I'm 27 and I really desire to find a special man who will love and cherish me as the special person I am. I write ads and display all my good qualities, thinking I'll get lots of replies but I only get a few replies and none of them I like. It seems they're either too old ( over 45 or 50), crazy, in prison,dumber than bricks, or they still live with their mamas. Ugh!! And I'm also tired of sex crazed creeps and it would be nice to find a white man because I am a white girl. I also would like my man to have brains and personality, too, and that he be loving, not demanding or opinionated, very sweet, kind, and respectful. Am I dreaming or does such a man exist who's available and will like me? If that sounds like you and you're a MAN and NOT MARRIED, feel free to write.

Georgette georgettetilley@yahoo.com

im fat

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I wish I wasn't so fat.

Ken Barrett kbarrett@andiamo.com

hey watz up people there are disriminating people out there just teasing fat people and i dont like it...

FaTbOi wickeddevil666@devil.com

JUST COS PEOPLE OVER JUDGE FAT PEOPLE BOUT HOW THEY LOOK DONT LET THEM TAKE OVER YOU AND JUST YOU YOURSELF FOR I AM FAT ALSO AND LOVING IT IVE BEEN FAT SINCE THE AGE OF 5 AND NOW I AM 22 STILL LIVING LARGE WELL PEOPLE DISCRIMINATING FAT PEOPLE SHOULD THINK OF WHAT THEY ARE DOIN MAKIN US FEEL BAD BOUT THE WAY WE LOOK WE SHOULD STAND UP FOR WHAT WE BELIEVE AND TELL THEM OUT WELL MY BIRTHDAY IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER ON APRIL 28, 2003 HEY PLEASE SEND ME EMAILS FOR US FAT BROTHERS AND SISTERS SHALL BE ONE...

W.Gofigan UMATACBOI@YAHOO.COM

I'm a BBW and am searching for other BBW sites. I like this one and hope you visit mine. http://www.foxieroxie.arehot.com

Foxie Roxie FFoxieRRoxie@hotmail.com

Im fat

Maria Guzvic m_g_todd@hotmail.com


I was tired of going to clubs to find a man. All I found were guys who just wanted to get into my panties telling me I'm fat and that I should be happy to have any interest at all. I joined a dating site that caters to plus size women. I have been a member for 3 months and finally I am getting responses. I actually had 3 dates so far. I have not found Mr. Right yet, but I find this better than going to bars and clubs where horny guys are just looking for sex, then never call again, where they stare at you like you are a piece of meat. Or they laugh at you because you are FAT. Anyway, this site really works. Real men, who actually respond - Voice mail is great. http://plussizepersonals.com

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I loved your home page, made me feel good about myself

Ashley ashley_m_99@hotmail.com

Very groovy web site - great for a first timer!

amanda mackie amandamackie@hotmail.com

Just like to say that I have always been cynical about diet products and slimming centres, especially those that keep appearing in advertisements everwhere. I recently read "Fat is not A Four Letter Word" by Charles Roy Schroeder and it has consolidated my belief that the negativity associated with fat has been largely generated by companies that are out to make money. Good work on the website!

anonymous anon@nowhere.com

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annonymous dworona@yahoo.com

I am fAT SO LOVE URE SITE

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Jean xwaldo@aol.com

This site is a real good site.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

HI IM FAT IM REALLY OVERWEIGHT AND I NEED FRIENDS!

IAN GARND elves_that_make_noses@hotmail.com


annonymous gri_kedi@yahoo.com

Bless you. What a superb site. No crap just good information. Thank you thank you thank you. If only there was more of this in Australia. Jane

Jane-the-Cat jkunstler@telstra.com

I bring a message from God, he loves us all no matter how big or how small. Just because you're bra size is triple double E doesn't mean you don't deserve as much love as someone else..it just means theirs more of you to love!!So just break out those bibles and pary, pray, pray!!!!

Prisscila anon@nowhere.com

I just want to say that i think it is very rude and immateur that people are abusing this website with their rude comments. This website is here for a reason, for us overweight people to feel accepted, and thanks to you kids who have nothing better to do than abuse it, it has been ruined. Thank you, and go to hell.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Marie anon@nowhere.com

I love this site.

Marie Fulmer rerebaby_2000@yahoo.com

I love this page!! I'm a 42-year-old single mom, who is large, lovely, and lovin' it! I finally accepted myself as a fat person 2 years ago. If I start a diet right now, 5 minutes from now I'll still be fat. Tomorrow morning I'll still be fat. In fact, I may be fat for quite awhile. So for now, this is the package that contains me. And that's OK. I struggled with weight most of my life. When I was a kid, I got very very sick and lost alot of weight. My mom took me to the doctor, and he said I was underweight. So I had to take some kind of little white pills (I remember them well) that Dr. McFadden himself put in a little envelope. He told my mom to make sure I took all the pills. I remember thinking there sure were a lot in there. I still think there were too many. Mom followed the Dr's advice to the letter. Thus began a life of struggle for me. I lost weight briefly as a teenager, but gained it back after a few years. At the age of 26, I married a man who was Mr. Wonderful while we dated and all during the engagement. The abuse started on our honeymoon. We were members of a Pentecostal church whose views on divorce were very strict. He could beat the crap outta me, but I was bound for Hell if I divorced him. He did get counselling, and the physical abuse did stop. But the emotional abuse kept on. He would tell me things like "You know why I married you? Because you're so fat and ugly I knew no one else would want you." I wasn't even allowed to watch Roseanne on TV because my (skinny) husband said the show was "Chock full of sin. Look at both of them!!!" The "sin" was that Dan and Roseanne are both fat. Finally I decided I didn't deserve all that abuse, and I divorced the idiot. My pastor told me I was gonna go to Hell, and I replied "You mean this ain't it? Where do you think I've been all these years?" Now, I'm raising my son on my own. I moved to a different county and am attending a different church. I think about dating sometimes, but I don't know if I want to get into a relationship now. I have accepted myself as a fat lady, and it has made all the difference in my life. My skinny friends and family members are having trouble with my newfound acceptance, but they are dealing with it. I still hear the occasional "Oh, you're not fat...." statements, for which I came up with my very own Top Ten list of funny comments (I'll send a copy to anyone who's interested). Life is wonderful!!! Thanks for the great site!!!

Elaine enterprise032@aol.com

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poo poo@nowhere.com

I LOVE FAT PEOPLE!!!!!!

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

All my life I have lived with that little extra weight. I have had two children and my husband, of all people, wants me to work out and be thin! Society programs people to believe that everyone should be thin. I am not unhealthy. I am just a little overweight and, although I will try to lose a bit of the excess, there is only so much one woman can do with two small children (2 and 7 mo) and a job!

Shelly Olsan anon@nowhere.com

Hello fatties! im fat too and im proud of it! Thanks for the info everyone! bye

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

YO FATTIES

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

hey im not fat im 98 pounds but i have a pop belly and my friends are skinny and sometimes they make jokes about me because i eat a lot. o ya im 12.

natasha anon@nowhere.com

annonymous s.musselwhite@btopenworld.com

this is fat friendly and funny

fay fat

pagewake pagewake@hotmail.com

i'm fat

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

BEN WEVER';[/P\\ anon@nowhere.com

i am fat

fatboi batboy@thecookiefactory.com

>This is quite an interesting site.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

There is nothing with fat people. Im fat and im proud of my self.

ME babygurl2005ae@yahoo.com

i am fat and my name is ROCKJOBB

jason jason87hotmail.com

Thank you for your thoughtful and inspring website. I am fat and happy.

Susanne Barbo Susanne.Barbo@verizonwireless.com

i would first like to say i think it is great that i have a chance to talk openly with people who understand my "status in socity " yes i am fat and i wish i could belive my self when i say if you dont like what you see when you look at me look else where but i cant and i have a feeling their are alot that feel the same i say the word hoping some day i will belive them but the truth is i want people to look at me and like what they see ( i want to look at my self and like what i see) i want some one to have as much love for me as i have for them when they look at me and not just see the fat girl that want attition sad as it may sound i dont want pitty i want acceptence regaurdless of my size . i have alot of friends and surprisingly most are guys but to me it seems like they feelit is ok to be friends with me and tell me i am beautiful and a great person but none want to date me . maybe i am a bad person and my size has nothing to do with it but none the less i just want to be loved. stphenie shwartz- if i ever weighed 200 lbs i would kill my self is saden me to hear this when it was said i weghed 220 lbs if only people of all sizes could have the compassion i have for the stupid.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

i dont think fat is wrong i am fat but i wasnt when i was young and you know the one thing i miss ......... it is running i stoped running in the third grade the year i got boobs and fat ..

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Hello my name is Jenny and I am from England. I am 23 years old and so very unhappy about the way I look, feel, and how people (my friends, work mates) take the mick out of me. I don't choose to be like this, so many times I have tried to loose weight but I never seem to hold a decent diet down. I am 17 stone, a size 22 and because of the way I feel I put a front (a happy smile and "the joker") I suppose, only because deep down I am embarrassed and hurt about myself, and how I made myself so overweight. I am getting married in June next year and I desperately want to loose weight for my BIG day my only problem is I have no willpower what so ever. If anyone can help or give some advice please email me, I need all the help I can get. kindest regards jenny XX

Jenny jenny.spencer2@btinternet.com

I have recently come upon your web site (from typing in the Google search bar, "Fat Acceptance"). Thank you for putting this website up--it's theraputic to see helpful information about the dangers of extreme dieting (I am so tired of hearing about the Atkins diet). I'm 270 pounds, and perfectly healthy for being 20. I excersise and treat my mind, body, and spirit everyday. Not all fat people are lazy slobs. Thanks again for your help and informative webpage!

Miss Micki miss_engaged_micki@hotmail.com

hi i am 15 years old.my native language is not English so it may have some problems.after reat ur articlei think i can love my body.i am 64 kiloo geram and the fatest part of my body is my bottom.but i think my bottom is the sexiest part of my body like JLO. any way .... thanx for helping

....h..... mimihonaze@yahoo.com

While I continue to try to keep healthy with exercise at the gym and avoiding too much starch (I am not a Johnny-come lately to low carbs. I've been doing it for 30 years), I still have a paunch (actually, I like to say that all the exercise I've done has molded a "mighty belly."), and I know I may never lose it. Unfortunately, society judges you, and if you are fat, then you often wind up on the short end of the stick. For many years I was a professional sales representative, and I know I lost many job opportunities because I was fat. It's interesting to see that there are groups and organizations that are dedicated to the proposition that fat people are regular folks too. Thanks for the enlightenment

Russ Dodge ProfDodge@AOL.com

This is my second glance through the guest book. It is great that so many people are willing to share their experiences. This sharing jogs my mind and helps me to recall those times where I was on the end of non acceptance because of my being fat. This kind of pain can be avoided by not concienciously recognizing when you are not as valued or accepted because of your weight. Ignore it and it will go away. In the long run, it won't, however. We are what we are and have to accept it, work with it, and learn to like who we are.

Russ Dodge ProfDodge@AOL.com

thank you for making your cool site!

scott scomalone@yahoo.com

hi i am not quie sure how many people come on this website because they are "fat" or just big. i am a 14 year old girl going to turn 15 in a couple of months, well anyway i am about 165lbs. and i may not look like it because i "some what" hide it pretty well. i just really would like someone to HELP me with this problem. to me i have 2 choices i can either except it which i often try to do(since sometimes it appears that i am too LAZY to do anything about it) or of course the obvious actually loose it. it doesn't really help when i had a step mother who constantly bothered me about my appearance. and sometimes my sister can say some nasty things. now my mom is the same she is big too. and we both talk about how we are "going to loose it together" sorry i don't mean for this to sound like a whole life sorry, i just reallly need someone to talk to about trying to help me gain more confidence about my appearnace i mean the friends i talk to tell me that i am not fat and sometimes that helps but sometimes i try not to believe it because of what i think and what those other mean people told me. well i just really wished i had help. soryy if i was just another perosn taking up space. thank you if you listened. bye

rebecca anon@nowhere.com

nothing bad about the bigger person just more to love !!!!!!!

glynn anon@nowhere.com

This is one of the best sites on the Internet for fat acceptance information. Thank you.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Great to see a site like this, ive been a porker all my life. Society haspersicuted the large population for too long. I will continue to be a pie eater all my life. at least i will be happy

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I can't find a job to save my life. I am really capable but no one want's a fat girl in there medical office, or hospital. I am in Brentwood California, (East Bay). Shame on those who discriminate against me and others.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

love your site

eron britain ejbritain@aol.com

annonymous jcollison@rsnortheast.com

A very good site for FAs

nick www.nicholas22@tasmail.com

At a time when the butcher surgeons are holding a walk so that they can make their victims raise even more money, it is great to have a voice in the wilderness like yours. Now Carnie Wilson, who doesn't even have enough of a stomach left to feed herself, is going to starve a fetus inside of her.

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

In case you're not familiar with them Concerned Women for America is a gay-bashing organization that characterizes homosexuality as a sickness that is against the laws of god. I *hate* Concerned Women for America, and I hope you kick their collective asses for this... Coming Out of the Pantry 9/23/2004 By Brian Fitzpatrick So what do obesity and homosexuality have in common? My friend Pete just wrote to ask how we should respond when people ask us, “Are you saying they [homosexuals] chose their attractions?” Here’s my reply. It's time for me to come out of the pantry, Pete -- as New Jersey Gov. Jim McGreevey might put it, "I am a fat American." I've been fat ever since I was four. Family legend has it that I was skinny until my brother went to kindergarten, and I chose to respond to the trauma of separation by drowning my sorrows in peanut butter and jelly. I never chose to be fat, I've been that way ever since I can remember. However, I see now that being fat is the natural result of my love affair with food, both garden-variety gluttony and my lifelong habit of using food to medicate emotional hurts. Early on, I adopted the destructive behavior, and over the years I unwittingly cultivated it, until it became a life-corrupting monster. As a child, I learned to identify myself as the fat kid, and grew comfortable in the uncomfortable role. I never knew what I was doing, never understood what obesity would do to me. Regrettably, I'm now suffering the consequences of obesity, the culmination of those thousand little choices I made over the years: high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, painful joints, increased risk of cancer. Here is the rest of the article: http://www.cwfa.org/articles/6411/CFI/family/index.htm

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Hello

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I am from Kenosha County Wisconsin.

maybe_youknow maybe_youknow@yahoo.com

I agree, a lot. I weigh 550 pounds and can sink a small kids sailing yacht just with the weight of my stomach. IT IS OK TO BE FAT!!!!!

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Erik SOrrel phatamerica@hotmail.com

I am glad that you have this web sight because Imight have helped some in need. THANKYOU.

Duane Martin anonwww.martin@advntr.com

i think that it is ok to be fat, if you are happy then thats all that matters.i believe that i am since i weigh 53 kg and have a height of 160cm, however i believe that fatness is not an insult but a compliment. so if anyone ever calls you fat just remember that fatness is the best

fatso1 solarium@hotmail.com

think its fine to be fat, cause im fat and its great, poor nochka. i weigh 50kg and have a height of 160cm. and yeh, im fat. u should see nochka, the fat chicken. like wow! shes like so fat. she cant even fly or walk properly. so dont worry if u think ur fat, cause ur not as fat as nochka.

fatso no.1 nochka@hotmial.com

Hi all. Im not actually fat myself, Im actually a rather skinny guy, not that I mind that. Anyway, I just wanted to say that I really like larger ladies. All my lovers have been large, and I expect any future lovers will be too. Large ladies are SEXY, and dont let anyone tell you otherwise!

pens pi.herbert@gmail.com

Very impressive!

Fire5037 Fire5037@Comcast.Net

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JC anon@nowhere.com

struggled with weight whole life. mom had 2 surgeries to be slim. certain that obesity is genetic. recently gained all weight back after being slim for 7 yrs. head messed up. want to be ok with self, but can't. hate being fat!

lee acosta ciscokid16@hotmail.com

This has been so enlightening and enabling. I have been exercising for over a year and have not lost a pound. I have not lost an inch either. But I feel sooooo good!!

nancy anon@nowhere.com

Hi all Just to say anyone living in Ireland who is like me and just cant find anything thats fashionable to wear in their size check out OXENDALES.IE or SIMPLYBE.IE for fashion that fits!!!!!!!!!!!!! They do great lines in shoes in wider fittings and larger sizes and they also do larger underwear aswell and its not all hideous frumpy things a granny would wear!! Its been my saviour - its shopping from home so you dont have to worry bout cramped changing rooms and rude sales assistants. Check it out!!

Jane anon@nowhere.com

hi ladies i love big women and so do a lot of men so dont be depressed about being big i am from ireland i love america if you want to have a friend im all yours chat to me anytime bye michael

michael cara mickles@icqmail.com

im just hm

jelly b\elly anon@nowhere.com

Been "in shape" Yes... lean, and everything in between. I would presently be considered FAT. Have always been extremly interested in psychology, I am appalled at the diffrence in attitudes when approached by people. I cannot even get into this here... rationalization seems to be lost, Let me say this... Anorexia is "SOCIABLY ACCEPTABLE""Bulemia" is a norm in "competitive" sports??? None of these are "HEALTHY" What is wrong with this picture?????Please feel free to coment........

Get over it. cakewok@usfamily.net

im so fat

spencer redvsblue5@rock.com

I have been trying to come to terms and understand my sexuality for some time because I have had these feelings since I was 14 and had my first serious hard-on chatting with a chubby girl in my class. (I still think about her from time to time!!) Having spent some time looking around various websites (some porno), I have come full-circle. Although I now know that larger girls and the guys that fancy them are called by acronyms, I do not know why I have these feelings. The important lesson I have learnt is that it is not important why I have these feelings, nor does it matter that I am called a Fat Admirer, or that the women I have lusted after all my life are known as BBW's. I have come to realise that taking the piss out of someone because they are sexually attracted to chubby girls is the same as taking the piss out of someone because he fancies a blonde girl instead of the mainstream brunette. The lesson I have learnt is that I prefer chubby girls sexually, and if that is that I prefer, that is what I should seek in NORMAL everyday life and not worry about how we are labelled or prejudged. Sorry to bore you all with my ramblings but I had to get it off my chest. (By the way, if Kim Wilson by any chance reads this one day, you know who the girl is!!!)

Jon Dempsey jon.dempsey@talk21.com

annonymous benjy3535@hotmail.com

Maggie Jones Maggie_Jones@Countrywide.com

Hi! I just signed to say that although I am not fat, I am very plump - especially my tummy, lol! Thanx 4 da great resources!

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

:D

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Nice job :) Keep it up body!

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

I LOVE BEING FAT AND UGLY EVEN!

kandi kandikindley68@hotmail.com

Thanks for being a cite, and love to receive any information you have for support of being heavy..

annonymous anon@nowhere.com

Jamie anon@nowhere.com

i'm fat and alone

rebecca foden rebecca.foden@hudson.com

I have gained 20 lbs in the last few weeks - I feel fat but i'm not that fat - how do i handle feeling like I want to stay this way

annonymous amilford1984@hotmail.com

A very good site. Thanks! :)

Dr. Mom webmaster@drmom.com

good site) you are the best!

Makhov Alexander violetta142@bk.ru

12/29/05 It was very interesting reading your web site. Thanks for having this information available. My story is a bit unusual, but here it is anyway. I was heavyset growing up until I was about 14 years old. I grew about 5" in about 3 months and my metabolism fired up into high gear. I went from one extreme to the other. Instead of being teased about my weight, I was now being teased about how I could put food away and not show it. I am now 51 years old, 5'11", and 193 pounds. My metabolism is starting to slow down. My struggle is that there is a fat person inside of me that wants to be released. I would like to continue gaining weight to end up being somewhere between 250 and 300 pounds. (My wonderful and beautiful wife of almost 26 years is 5'6" and about 260 pounds.)Any thoughts and/or encouragement on this would be appreciated. God bless you and Happy New Year to you! (By the way, we live in Lancaster